"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I went AFC on her, is it too late to pull it back???

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I never understood why men put so much thought and stock into non-marital relations, where the risk of monetary loss is nil.

Once men begin to understand that their happiness can be greater outside of exclusivity rather than in, all these "expectations" they saddle upon another become obsolete.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dear Bunjy,
Sounds like normal relationship behaviour,they usually start pulling back after about four months into a new relationship,so I think you have had a good run LOL.
 

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Dear Bunjy,
Sounds like normal relationship behaviour,they usually start pulling back after about four months into a new relationship,so I think you have had a good run LOL.
I call it the six-month mental quiz. Her Game= are you hooked? Your response is just what these guys have been saying. Make her show you. If she bolts, get over it.
 

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I'm confused...she's still having sex with you, right? What is there to fix?
Because she's either a wh*re who lets chumps f*ck her that she doesn't like, or.....he's lying.

I'd go with option 2.
 

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There is only one one answer here. Pull back your attention and emotions and act like you did when you first started hanging out with her. If you do anything else you will fail.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know when their interested, because you don't have to do much work :)
 
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