"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was the **** last night!

Bungo Pony

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Went to a concert last night - by myself. I had one intention - to have a good time and maybe meet a few people, which is what I did

I started talking to some people, and we kinda hung out all night. The band was playin' and I was into it, movin to the music. There were 2 girls that were flirting with 2 guys. They weren't all that great looking. One of them asked me for a cigarette, and I charged her for it.

Slow tune comes on. I made eye contact with one lady, I gave a signal to her to go dance. I saw her say "go dance?" I nodded and we went.

I kept being dragged out onto the dance floor by women, probably cause I looked like potential fun. One girl was very into me, damn good looking. Lotsa kino. and a couple of kisses.

After the band was finished, we went and got a drink together. She introduced me to a couple of her friends. She told them that I was the best out on the dance floor. We then had a very short conversation.

Her: Why don't you come to Jeffery's with us?
Me : Who's Jeffery?
Her: Jeffery's is a resteraunt by blablabla.
Me : Well, I need to get myself some sleep for tomorrow, but if you give me your number, we'll hook up again.

She agreed and scribbled her number down.

Ahhh, success!!

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"Accept the chains of loving,
Accept the rails remove yourself from her side
Do without her love" - BOC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Awesome job, Bungo!



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CASANOVA

"Now when you talk with her, I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie that everybody really hopes makes it happen. I want you to be the guy in the rated-R movie who you're not sure if you like yet."
- Trent in "Swingers"

"Enough of this melodrama. My advice: Just one b*tch in this world. One b*tch with many faces."
- Jay, in "Chasing Amy"
 

Paradox

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Great success story!

Moved to "Success Forum"
 
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