"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was the **** last night!

Bungo Pony

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Went to a concert last night - by myself. I had one intention - to have a good time and maybe meet a few people, which is what I did

I started talking to some people, and we kinda hung out all night. The band was playin' and I was into it, movin to the music. There were 2 girls that were flirting with 2 guys. They weren't all that great looking. One of them asked me for a cigarette, and I charged her for it.

Slow tune comes on. I made eye contact with one lady, I gave a signal to her to go dance. I saw her say "go dance?" I nodded and we went.

I kept being dragged out onto the dance floor by women, probably cause I looked like potential fun. One girl was very into me, damn good looking. Lotsa kino. and a couple of kisses.

After the band was finished, we went and got a drink together. She introduced me to a couple of her friends. She told them that I was the best out on the dance floor. We then had a very short conversation.

Her: Why don't you come to Jeffery's with us?
Me : Who's Jeffery?
Her: Jeffery's is a resteraunt by blablabla.
Me : Well, I need to get myself some sleep for tomorrow, but if you give me your number, we'll hook up again.

She agreed and scribbled her number down.

Ahhh, success!!

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"Accept the chains of loving,
Accept the rails remove yourself from her side
Do without her love" - BOC
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Awesome job, Bungo!



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CASANOVA

"Now when you talk with her, I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie that everybody really hopes makes it happen. I want you to be the guy in the rated-R movie who you're not sure if you like yet."
- Trent in "Swingers"

"Enough of this melodrama. My advice: Just one b*tch in this world. One b*tch with many faces."
- Jay, in "Chasing Amy"
 

Paradox

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Great success story!

Moved to "Success Forum"
 
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