Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i was hit on by a MAN tonight... i am pissed

white_hype

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tonight im at a badass party, in line for the bano (bahtroom) and this guy in front of me goes "are you greek" i say "no im german" (i am wasted b/c normally i would KTFO a guy who talks to me i dont know( and he says "no i mean are you in a frat" im like "yes xxx" then he goes in the bathroom

i go after hes done and that is that

later in the party he is dancing with a girl like a homo (not gettin g near her) and i tell this girl what happend (aka- i think i got hit on by a fag) she goes "ill find out" comes back and tells me "hes a FAG" then out of no where he turns to me (from the dance floor) " are you srue your in Xxx" and i was like "WTF YOU FAG" and leave b/c i got seriaouly pissed

END OF STORY, NUFF SED
NAW WUT IM TOMBOUT
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dirtheart

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I've been hit on by guys. I'm not gay, but I always take it as a compliment and just react politely, as I would with a woman I'm not interested in. I honestly don't see any reason to be embarrassed or pissed off.
 

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When he went down on you, you should've KTFO of him with a flying knee!



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P.S. (for dementia) KTFO means 'Knock The F*ck Out'.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Porky

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You really are an idiot.
 

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You think thats bad?

Me and a buddy from work were going to go clubbing. I never meet him before I got the job and he seemed like a cool guy. So he tells me he knows this place that he used to go to. Next thing I know I'm in a gay club, nice :rolleyes: That was the first club I ever went to.
 

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I have to wonder why, if you are so pissed off, you felt the need to tell everyone about it. Hmmmm...
 

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I'm 15 and got hit on by a 24 year old shop owner at the mall. He heard me speaking french so decided to try his luck. He suggested we "meet up" some time. My mom walked away laughing her ass off as I had the honor of talking to this guy for 10 minutes. He was definatly the guy who receives because his voice was so girlish and his hair was just... ugh.

Bad damn, you are insecure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by white_hype
sroty:

tonight im at a badass party, in line for the bano (bahtroom) and this guy in front of me goes "are you greek" i say "no im german" (i am wasted b/c normally i would KTFO a guy who talks to me i dont know( and he says "no i mean are you in a frat" im like "yes xxx" then he goes in the bathroom
Please, tell me that after being on this site for so long, you aren't so insecure in your sexuality that you would honestly attempt to beat up any guy that talks to you whom you don't know. If I'm not mistaken, isn't that what the DJ Boot Camp says to do? (Talk to random strangers... girls, guys, grandmas, anyone... you could be beating up a fellow sosuave'er next time...) :rolleyes:

later in the party he is dancing with a girl like a homo (not gettin g near her)
Why were you paying attention to how he was dancing? Or him at all?

and i tell this girl what happend (aka- i think i got hit on by a fag)
Why did you feel the need to re-tell what happened to you?

she goes "ill find out" comes back and tells me "hes a FAG" then out of no where he turns to me (from the dance floor) " are you srue your in Xxx"
Well now. Lets look at it from his viewpoint... he has a short conversation with a guy in line for the bathroom, and then later on he notices that guy staring at him dancing... then a few minutes after, the girl that guy was talking to comes up and says "My friend wants to know if you're gay". Dude, I'm not gay, but if that situation happened to me I'd think that you were.

and i was like "WTF YOU FAG" and leave b/c i got seriaouly pissed
You left because a gay guy said that you weren't in a frat? This reeks of AFC insecurity. Why didn't you continue dancing and having a great time with the ladies at this "badass party"? Perhaps next time you shouldn't be staring at guys and sending people to ask if they are gay...
 

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It happens. I don't know how many times it happened to me when I visited Europe. I'd be out in clubs with some friends and invariably, some English or German guy would come up and try to chat me up.

I wondered why this was the case, but I just wrote it off and was flattered. Hell, if guys are finding me attractive, that means that some women are too.
 

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No guys, its obvious what really happened. He was the one who tried to hit on another guy, and then he got pissed because the guy blew everything out of proportion and called him a fag in front of alot of people. This post here was just so he could explain the story and have everyone bash the person who called him a fag...
 

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Welcome to the 21st century white_hype -- did you time travel here from the Middle Ages or something? What do you have against gay people.

Jeeze, that guy barely even hit on you. In fact all I can see is that he said two sentences to you.

Last weekend I went to a fundraiser for a transvestite support group at someone's loft, and in the space of an hour:

-I saw 7 gay guys grinding with each other in a line (wish girls would do that so I could try to break in :D )
-I saw at least two girls in tight dresses and 5 o'clock shadows
-got smiles from at least 4 guys
-got hit on in the washroom line (what's up with gay guys and the washroom line?)
-some guy came up to me and said, "I know you're probably straight but I think you're really cute"

THAT'S getting hit on by a gay guy. And it didn't bother me at all, I had a blast. Another gay Asian guy taught me how to moonwalk. My point is that you need to loosen up, gay guys are fun as hell and alot of them are cooler than you or I so get your head out of your @$$.
 

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Gay guys also usually travel with very hot girls, from my experiences. While more aggressive than girls, they are usually more respectful when they learn that you're straight - and will quite often go the length to try to hook you up with their hot female friends, if you're friendly with the guy (and friendly just means talking to the person).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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white..this was a disgraceful post...


I would expect a common visitor of this board to uphold himself much better than this...
 

wolfie

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sounds like white_hype got a bit of tender luvin care in prison...
 

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hmm well look at all the typos? he said he came from a party right?

it seems to me that this guy was completely drunk when he typed this :rolleyes: .

just an observation. take it as you will.
 

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Classic example of ......

Abreaction.

The gay man hitting on him triggered white-hype's latent homosexual thoughts (however small) and he lashed out in anger b/c if he doesn't he sees that as being cooperative/accepting of these thoughts which are inside his head.

His belief/value is that he is "not a fag", "not a sissy", "not a homo"....etc.
This is a deeply rooted belief/value that if ever slighly provoked will cause the emotions of anger and denial to immidiately rise to the surface so as not to challenge the belief/value.

For if that belief/value was ever trully challenged it would crumble and he would have to simply face the fact that he has homosexual thoughts.

Then he would catch fire and explode.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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