"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

I was gonna post this long,thought out,thought provking thread

Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
On what I have learned from this site, the state of the world, how it affects me, how I see things, maybe realistically or not, women they're role in things, my own thoughts and angers with feminism, myself, but I am too tired and a little drunk right now to type it all out. When I do this, I really want some feedback on it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,566
Reaction score
4,141
Location
Inside her mind
da fucc?

I see your threads, do you ever go out on the field?
log off now, stop your KBJing buy some new clothes and go out on the field

stop your whining.......

hot damn
 
Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
No. I don't really. So I am not exactly speaking from experience, only observation. I have bought many new clothes in the past few months, personally, the idea of going out into the field, which I realize how the game is played,always seemed to me to be very superficial in that you are being judged on all these stupid,petty things, and it's only cause dumbass chicks pull that crap.

I alway hated the "players", they always tended to be such *******s, so naturally, I developed a despisement, and I am not talking about real ones, basically the run of the mill *******s who are like the popular guys in highschool. It's all cause society screwed us over.
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2008
Messages
224
Reaction score
0
Age
35
CapedCrusader08 said:
No. I don't really. So I am not exactly speaking from experience, only observation. I have bought many new clothes in the past few months, personally, the idea of going out into the field, which I realize how the game is played,always seemed to me to be very superficial in that you are being judged on all these stupid,petty things, and it's only cause dumbass chicks pull that crap.

I alway hated the "players", they always tended to be such *******s, so naturally, I developed a despisement, and I am not talking about real ones, basically the run of the mill *******s who are like the popular guys in highschool. It's all cause society screwed us over.
its easier to conform to society than to fight against it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,566
Reaction score
4,141
Location
Inside her mind
CapedCrusader08 said:
No. I don't really. So I am not exactly speaking from experience, only observation. I have bought many new clothes in the past few months, personally, the idea of going out into the field, which I realize how the game is played,always seemed to me to be very superficial in that you are being judged on all these stupid,petty things, and it's only cause dumbass chicks pull that crap.

I alway hated the "players", they always tended to be such *******s, so naturally, I developed a despisement, and I am not talking about real ones, basically the run of the mill *******s who are like the popular guys in highschool. It's all cause society screwed us over.

How old are you?

all I ever see you post is whiny post

man up

women don't want a vagina, they already have one!!!
 
Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
I'm 23, and am only posting what I see wrong/have a problem with in the world.

and in response to another part...

Yeah. That's one way of seeing it. Finding where I fit in and whathaveyou has always been a struggle for me, why? I don't know, and it feels more like the hopeless loner type rather than the cool chick getting one. I also feel like I am in the midst of some life crisis in regards to me and my own future. I have let too many years go by, and getting back into things seems harder than normal.

Particularly articles like this, http://community.feministing.com/2008/12/of-sex-innocence-and-virginity.html

http://www.feministing.com/archives/012770.html

upon reading articles on such a site, I realize what is wrong with women, and how much feminism has screwed up and screwed over.
 

Halloween

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2008
Messages
43
Reaction score
3
CC08, I told myself I was going to stop responding to your (many) threads, but let me just voice my exasperation.

The number of man-hours people on this site have donated to you in an effort to help you out is STAGGERING.

People have gone as far as to give you, personally, explicit instructions on what to do to turn your life around. And we have yet to see you follow through on any of this.

Do yourself a favor and don't post again unless it's, "I did X. This is how it went down. Here are the constructive things I learned."
 
Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
Well, see that;s my problem, I don't know how to take advice, and I have a hard putting a plan into action. Believe me, I am more shocked than you, this is an addiction, that's the only way I can think to describe it as. Plus this sense of idk,lost time, and a hard time catching up.

I feel I should be so far ahead, yet I can't even find the time to say go out to a bar, or an event, and well, do what we talk about here on the site, I have gotten so used to this, that it has made me bitter about life. And yet I want this success in life so badly.


I mean, I don't know if it's how I view the world. I often feel like it's still the whole thing of where do/don't belong,do/don't fit in, how big a social network, people,etc.

I mean, I realize my problem is inaction, I can get an idea/plan, but have trouble executing it. I guess that's procrastination. I can't help but think if i had done this that and the other action sooner, I would be a different person, the person I want to be. Maybe this is all due to a feeling of lack of acceptance in life, all I do know is I have been feeling this way a long time. I mean, I could have gotten better at school, in life,with women, had more experience, but the past few years, I feel I have been just drifting along no real plan. I could have changed things sooner, but for some reason, I'm constantly here,in this state.
 

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,566
Reaction score
4,141
Location
Inside her mind
Just log off, now!!

Start your on Bootcamp or journal
I didn't follow the bibles bootcamp i made my own, and that **** helped just as well. GEt of your ass, stop being a little punk and crying
where do u live? i swear, are you a virgin? if you are then yo, I understand but still, get of your ass, log off

thats the first step

live your life

go out there, stop making lame excuses

Im done
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Jaggs

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2008
Messages
143
Reaction score
7
Hey Caped Crusader.

Every thread of yours ACTUALLY Angers me. I usually am not the type to get annoyed over things, but reading your bullshyt over and over is just infuriating.

Shut the fvck up! You don't know shyt. You really don't

Until you go out there and live life, you can't slam how "Messed up" society is. Fvck you and your constant whinging. If thats all you wanna do then go ahead, but don't press it on anyone else.

Stop posting here.

If not I'm sure you will be banned soon enough.
 
Top