Chunkydo
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She was cheating on me. End of story.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I was Dumped without a reason. Now I get an email.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jophil28
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A possible translation from "womanspeek" to intelligent English...Chunkydo said:
"A complicated girl ", means something like this , " I have no coherent strucure in my personality,I am merely a disjointed collection of needs, desires, wants and acts. I am blown around by the wind of immediacy and I like the freedom to do as I want, whenever I want. By the way, I am seeing my old B/f at the office again, behind your back."
"...I am doing this for both of us ".. means this , " I had a pang of guilt about dumping you so, to delude myself into feeling better, I am going to lie to you. I want you to believe that I care about YOUR feelings but really I do not. You were fun and useful for a while, but no longer. BTW, I am sleeping with my old B/f again ".
"In time you will see that I was right about my decisison"....means ..." I want you to get over this quickly and I do not want you to ever make me feel bad about how I dumped you. I could care less about the damage I just did to you. This is all about me and my feelings.
OH, did I mention that by B/f and I are back together ?"
^^^^right on. This has her gettin back with her ex written all over it. She always had feeling for this guy. Once he found out about you then he made her life hell. She surrendered and went back to him. Fvck her and the horse she rode in on.
ChumpNoMore
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^ Jophil's woman-ese to english translation, FTW.jophil28 said:
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Don't take it personally; you were the rebound guy. If she was truly ready to move on from her ex, she would've quit her job. If you get involved with a woman that is pining for her ex, you will lose no matter who you are.
As a side note, you spent entirely too much time with her. You need to leave a bit more to the imagination, especially early in a relationship, or a woman's interest in you will plummet. If you're willing to invest THAT much time in a single woman, it sends the message that you don't necessarily find yourself worthy of her. That letter she sent you is a typical "nice guy" letter--you were too available and accommodating too early.
The good news is that she's but one of many; there IS no "one that got away." The important part is that you recognize your mistakes so the same situation doesn't occur with the next one.
Best of luck
As a side note, you spent entirely too much time with her. You need to leave a bit more to the imagination, especially early in a relationship, or a woman's interest in you will plummet. If you're willing to invest THAT much time in a single woman, it sends the message that you don't necessarily find yourself worthy of her. That letter she sent you is a typical "nice guy" letter--you were too available and accommodating too early.
The good news is that she's but one of many; there IS no "one that got away." The important part is that you recognize your mistakes so the same situation doesn't occur with the next one.
Best of luck
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Even while we were arguing, We were still inseparable, spending every night together. When we werent together, we texted, emailed and called. We were workout partners working out every day, 6 days a week.
Hey, Chunkydo,
Every night together! Inseperable! We texted, emailed and called! We workout partners 6 days a week!
WTF!!!!!!!!!
You did not give her the gift of missing you. Simple as that mate.
Jeezuz, no wonder she had enough of you. Talk about suffocating each other.
Hey, Chunkydo,
Every night together! Inseperable! We texted, emailed and called! We workout partners 6 days a week!
WTF!!!!!!!!!
You did not give her the gift of missing you. Simple as that mate.
Jeezuz, no wonder she had enough of you. Talk about suffocating each other.
I know this is going to be hard to do but why beat yourself over this. It is over and she does not want you so F her and move on. From reading your post sounds like you did too much too soon.
1. Working out 6 days a week together
2. Text/email/talking all the time
3. Spending all this time together
She had you, you were always there, probally smothered her, and like someone above said you never gave her the gift of missing you. Her ex at work was probally a **** to her, not being nice and ignoring her whenever possiable. This drove her crazy, why does he not want her she wonders. You were too AFC brother.. No biggie time to re-evaluate and move on.. Best of luck
1. Working out 6 days a week together
2. Text/email/talking all the time
3. Spending all this time together
She had you, you were always there, probally smothered her, and like someone above said you never gave her the gift of missing you. Her ex at work was probally a **** to her, not being nice and ignoring her whenever possiable. This drove her crazy, why does he not want her she wonders. You were too AFC brother.. No biggie time to re-evaluate and move on.. Best of luck
jophil28
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*Girl gets dumped by bad azz who happens to employ her for a lot $$.
*Girl recruits a 'rebound guy' who does not understand that his sole job is to rebuild her ego and validate her market appeal. He thinks that she wants a new 'relationship' with him. SHe hooks him with hot sex .."I love you rebound guy".
*Girl tells rebound guy all about badazz and how she hates him. Girl says that she wants to quit job, but stays because of the money. Rebound guy believes her.
*Rebound guy believes all her victim statements and bends himself into a pretzel trying NOT to be like badazz. Rebound guy thinks that she really dislikes badazz because girl endlessly whines.
* Fast forward a few months and rebound guy starts to feel her pulling away.
Girl starts acting distant and soon dumps him with one of the myriad lies so beloved by women who breakup with a guy.
* Girl 'branchswings' back to badazz. Rebound guy is broken up and posts on SS.
* Experienced posters give advice, rebound guy ignores advice and waits in hope for her to call him.
And so it goes - over and over.
*Girl recruits a 'rebound guy' who does not understand that his sole job is to rebuild her ego and validate her market appeal. He thinks that she wants a new 'relationship' with him. SHe hooks him with hot sex .."I love you rebound guy".
*Girl tells rebound guy all about badazz and how she hates him. Girl says that she wants to quit job, but stays because of the money. Rebound guy believes her.
*Rebound guy believes all her victim statements and bends himself into a pretzel trying NOT to be like badazz. Rebound guy thinks that she really dislikes badazz because girl endlessly whines.
* Fast forward a few months and rebound guy starts to feel her pulling away.
Girl starts acting distant and soon dumps him with one of the myriad lies so beloved by women who breakup with a guy.
* Girl 'branchswings' back to badazz. Rebound guy is broken up and posts on SS.
* Experienced posters give advice, rebound guy ignores advice and waits in hope for her to call him.
And so it goes - over and over.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Yep..horaholic said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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jophil28 said:
lol so funny and true. OP you will laugh oneday but for now just accept it and focus on better times for yourself
Seems like jophil28 is right the OP is not interested in what we have to say.
Thaks for posting. Maybe the advice here will help or encourage others in the same situation
Nice link samspade and great womanspeek translation jo
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Thaks for posting. Maybe the advice here will help or encourage others in the same situation
Nice link samspade and great womanspeek translation jo
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