Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I thought she might have been into me though, and if you saw her you'd probably understand why I didn't want to risk her being attracted to me and me blowing my chance to be with her.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I realise that I am posting a reply to myself, but I was wondering, when women says: I'm in a relationship, or I have a boyfriend, or says she's not single, is there anything I could say in that situation to turn the tables in my favor? I am especially wondering this because I was recently at a bar and asked a woman if she was single and she said: No. I then said: Ok. Then she said: Ok. Was that some sh!t test that I failed; if so, what could I have said to pass it?
Reply - Well, let me know if that changes.
I see. She may very well have been in a relationship. I don't read women very well; so I often just approach them if I find them attractive--lately I've read about sh!t tests from women and this got me wondering if this is one of them--but I could be overthinking things.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
“Oh. So how does your boyfriend feel about you calling random guys hun and babe?”
The crazy thing is after she rejected me I told her: Ok. Have a good one. And she said: You too babe.
I honestly hate when women I don’t know or aren’t interested in me throw words around like “babe” and “hun” and crap like that. These same women complain about guys doing the same to them. I hate making small talk with women anyways, especially if she isn’t interested in me or I can see a ring on her finger.
I actually checked for a ring on her finger, and there wasn't one. Also, she seemed giggly when she was talking to me, but all I can think of that now is that it might just be her personality.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It’s not her personality. She’s an attention ***** and a tease. No one flirts without realizing they’re doing it. Or either she’s the most non-self aware person on the face of the earth.
What's the point of being a tease if someone doesn't want sex or whatever from someone else?
Attention is like crack to women. It’s something men can’t understand because we don’t need attention, our egos aren’t as fragile as most women. A non-confident guy is still 100x more confident than the most confident woman. Women can have a boyfriend and if they can have a random guy be interested them (as you were since you asked for her number) it boosts her ego like you wouldn’t believe. Now, the weird thing is these same women will turn cold to you when you ask them out or afterwards because they know they have to turn you down and that means no more free attention from you.
Maybe that explains why this woman who was 9 years younger than me gave me her phone number at a bar recently, and then when I followed up via text to set up a date she said: I have to work then [saturday]. Then I said: when can you meet up? And she said: I'll let you know.
Agree to disagree. No hired guns for me. Cheers.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
At 10:57pm...
Classic male thirst example and why girls are the way they are today...
wtf? ok , i think this was a game.. be friendly and overtly nice , see how long it takes to get guy to ask for number
You should have said "No. Give me your number."
If a woman likes you she won't tell you about her boyfriend unless you specifically ask. A good reply is "I don't like women with boyfriends" and then walk away.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
