"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was 1 for 4 today :(

Essa Rios

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Hey guys......

It was a beautiful day today here in Hollywood, CA. so i decided to get out of the house and try talking to random girls hoping to try get one to join me for a bite to eat. It was not my day as the 4 girls i approached
only one seemed into me.

First approach was at a bookstore, i saw a cute asian in the travel section and asked her if she has ever been to NYC as i was just there last month.
She just stares at me and starts to walk away. So i moved on.

Second was a latina chick by the magazines reading a gossip mag so i ask her opinion on Jessica Simpson and Tony Romo breaking up. She was just giving me one word answers to every question i would ask her so i just slowly walk away.

I leave the bookstore and head to a nearby park hoping to have better luck where lots of girls were walking their dogs. I walk up to this one latina chick and ask what kind of dog she has as "i'm in the market for a dog". She was cool and very talkative to all my questions i would ask her.
Then i mention if we could continue this conversation over lunch and it will be my treat. Said no, something about how she already ate and when i ask
for her number she said no again.

My last approach was this white girl outside a drug store smoking a cigarette
so i ask if i can bum a cigarette off her. I don't smoke but i just played along like i did. She was really cool and funny but way older than me. Very cute but not really my type. Did talk to her for about 15min and exchanged phone numbers but she is 10 years older then me so that won't fly.

There you have it. Thats how my day went, hope all you guys had much
better luck than me. And just in case you care, yes i did end up eating alone.







Last girl i tried talking to was
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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prairiedog24

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The coolest part of this is the fake smoking. That's funny. Props just for that.
 

Kal0051

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meh, you win some, you lose some. Just approach more, but don't turn into that guy who hits on EVERY girl (I know a guy like that and girls just think he's a joke).
 

cletus

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Even A-Rod goes 1-4. Shake it off. They'll be plenty more at bats.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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You're crying because you went 1-4 today? b|tch i been 1 in 25!

1 out of 4 is actually very good. You need to do lots more approaches per day 4 is not enough. It is the only way to learn.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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