"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was 1 for 4 today :(

Essa Rios

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Hey guys......

It was a beautiful day today here in Hollywood, CA. so i decided to get out of the house and try talking to random girls hoping to try get one to join me for a bite to eat. It was not my day as the 4 girls i approached
only one seemed into me.

First approach was at a bookstore, i saw a cute asian in the travel section and asked her if she has ever been to NYC as i was just there last month.
She just stares at me and starts to walk away. So i moved on.

Second was a latina chick by the magazines reading a gossip mag so i ask her opinion on Jessica Simpson and Tony Romo breaking up. She was just giving me one word answers to every question i would ask her so i just slowly walk away.

I leave the bookstore and head to a nearby park hoping to have better luck where lots of girls were walking their dogs. I walk up to this one latina chick and ask what kind of dog she has as "i'm in the market for a dog". She was cool and very talkative to all my questions i would ask her.
Then i mention if we could continue this conversation over lunch and it will be my treat. Said no, something about how she already ate and when i ask
for her number she said no again.

My last approach was this white girl outside a drug store smoking a cigarette
so i ask if i can bum a cigarette off her. I don't smoke but i just played along like i did. She was really cool and funny but way older than me. Very cute but not really my type. Did talk to her for about 15min and exchanged phone numbers but she is 10 years older then me so that won't fly.

There you have it. Thats how my day went, hope all you guys had much
better luck than me. And just in case you care, yes i did end up eating alone.







Last girl i tried talking to was
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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prairiedog24

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The coolest part of this is the fake smoking. That's funny. Props just for that.
 

Kal0051

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meh, you win some, you lose some. Just approach more, but don't turn into that guy who hits on EVERY girl (I know a guy like that and girls just think he's a joke).
 

cletus

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Even A-Rod goes 1-4. Shake it off. They'll be plenty more at bats.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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You're crying because you went 1-4 today? b|tch i been 1 in 25!

1 out of 4 is actually very good. You need to do lots more approaches per day 4 is not enough. It is the only way to learn.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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