"I want you" Good idea?

[sbgm]

Hi! Please read this INTRIGING story
I was at this party last weekend and was playing one of the girls. She's like a "fine" girl, (does anything not to look as a slut) so we talked, she teased me and her pupils were dilated. We almost kissed but we were disturbed by the others... So I thought, I'll take it smooth and isolate and kiss her.

Apparently she got more and more drunk. She made out with another guy way under her leauge (she's 7/10 I'm 7/10 this guy was 5/10). I know this girl wants me so I'm gonna hang out with her.. But I don't have her # only Facebook and MSN.

So I was thinkin about sending her a message on FB pretty straight-forward:
"I want you.
Meet me at [landmark between our houses], friday 20.00"

Is this a good Idea?
I was also thinking about chatting and sending:
"Wow you got real drunk last weekend, you confused me with the [other guy 5/10]"

What do ya think DJs?

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Hi! Please read this INTRIGING story
I was at this party last weekend and was playing one of the girls. She's like a "fine" girl, (does anything not to look as a slut) so we talked, she teased me and her pupils were dilated. We almost kissed but we were disturbed by the others... So I thought, I'll take it smooth and isolate and kiss her.

Apparently she got more and more drunk. She made out with another guy way under her leauge (she's 7/10 I'm 7/10 this guy was 5/10). I know this girl wants me so I'm gonna hang out with her.. But I don't have her # only Facebook and MSN.

So I was thinkin about sending her a message on FB pretty straight-forward:
"I want you.
Meet me at [landmark between our houses], friday 20.00"

Is this a good Idea?
I was also thinking about chatting and sending:
"Wow you got real drunk last weekend, you confused me with the [other guy 5/10]"

What do ya think DJs?

It can work. However, you HAVE to make sure your Facebook profile is CRISP and that you're sending the right vibe. Check out my feature for some quick tips to start out (check out the FIRST video clip):

http://www.nakedwithsockson.com/2009/12/17/online-dating-tips-for-men-women/

Keep in mind a few things. First off, she was drunk and secondly, she was "slutting" on another dude. She may not remember you and may have been in a totally different mindset. Some girls COMPLETELY change once they have some liq in their systems. Whatever you do, do not take a drunk, party-ho too seriously. In most cases, they are just attention *****s who are very "liberal" with giving up the goods. I think you have the right idea...just go for the homerun. Never invest too much time and energy into the party-skank,

Good luck.

 

[sbgm]

Sorry! Left out some info. I've known this girl for 4 years and she have been teasing me everytime we met... I had a crush on her 3 years ago and I have wanted to nail that a$$ since then, so she knows me...

 

[tosh]

"I want you" will almost definitely not work.

"Wow you got real drunk last weekend, you confused me with the [other guy 5/10]"

That's even worse.

I suggest you ignore her for a bit, and then go for a kiss next time you see her at a party drunk.

 

[Iceberg]

Seems like you CAN bang her. I don't know that "I want you" is the right approach. As s1utty as a girl may be, they don't want to be TREATED like one. If I were you, I'd skip the "I want you part" and go straight to the "Let's hang out. Meet me Friday at (landmark)."

"I want you" seems like it puts a lot of pressure on the girl. Even if she wants to hook up with you, maybe she doesn't want to plan an encounter ENTIRELY around a hookup. These situations work best when you tell the girl to meet you for a drink, a walk in the park, etc. That way it's more about having "innocent fun" and the hookup is the added bonus.

I've tried your move before, and it works sometimes. But it's a low-percentage play.

 

[sbgm]

Okey I'll skip the "I want you" ... hehe. Maybe just write on my FBstatus that I'm goin out saturday...

 

[CarlitosWay]

Okey I'll skip the "I want you" ... hehe. Maybe just write on my FBstatus that I'm goin out saturday...

Wtf why not throw her some light humor and chat for a quick bit on FB then say "Oh hun I forgot to exchange numbers with you the other night, Here's mine XXXXX-XXXX"

I'm sure she'll be much obliged to give you hers. Then tell her I'll call you some time........

Wait a day or two hit her up....Joke around build up some rapport...Say you know what I'm in the mood to have some fun lets go out so and so day and set up an action date.....act sexy smooth escalate escalate escalate at least get a freakin' kiss or sumthing. leave her wanting more always.....

from the get go I always and always talk to women and refer to them as hun, sweetie...then later after I escalate subtly and make it obvious I'm a sexual man I start saying things like babe, baby and this just makes girls go goooogy gaga over you (well in my experience)

Also on your date don't forget to be very social not just with her but the whole entire world....I like to pretend everyone loves me no matter who it is and I interact with the masses be it a store clerk or server some where...I put myself in the now, joke and have a general good time with my date and strangers. As if I have no worries and am always out to have a GREAT time no matter what kind of turmoil I'm feeling mentally or problems I'm enduring personally.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

But I don't have her # only Facebook and MSN.

So I was thinkin about sending her a message on FB pretty straight-forward:
"I want you.
Meet me at [landmark between our houses], friday 20.00"

Is this a good Idea?

No. Why are you making it so complicated and rolling the dice?

If she's interested, a message "what's your #"? will work fine and you can get the **** off of FB and MSN and stick with face-to-face.

If she's not interested, anything else you say isn't going to work anyway.

Complicated schemes in text are pretty much useless because you have no friggin idea of what state of mind she'll be in at the moment she reads your message. She could have a headache or just argued with a sibling or thousands of other things.

"What's your #?" can't set anything bad off, it's just a normal # request. No matter what state of mind she is in when she reads it. Plus, it leaves some mystery, she won't know (for sure) what you want to talk about and it'll raise her interest if she has any in the first place.

 

[sbgm]

As we say in sweden: Fett nice! Thanks

Should I get out this weekend to the local club, see if she's there and kiss her or just ask for the # and set up a date?

 

[goodfoot]

Hi! Please read this INTRIGING story
I was at this party last weekend and was playing one of the girls. She's like a "fine" girl, (does anything not to look as a slut) so we talked, she teased me and her pupils were dilated. We almost kissed but we were disturbed by the others... So I thought, I'll take it smooth and isolate and kiss her.

Apparently she got more and more drunk. She made out with another guy way under her leauge (she's 7/10 I'm 7/10 this guy was 5/10). I know this girl wants me so I'm gonna hang out with her.. But I don't have her # only Facebook and MSN.

So I was thinkin about sending her a message on FB pretty straight-forward:
"I want you.
Meet me at [landmark between our houses], friday 20.00"

Is this a good Idea?
I was also thinking about chatting and sending:
"Wow you got real drunk last weekend, you confused me with the [other guy 5/10]"

What do ya think DJs?

What is that 20.00 supposed to be, twenty dollars?

 

[2crudedudes]

What is that 20.00 supposed to be, twenty dollars?

20:00 hours, or 8PM in military time. He's from Sweden, cut him some slack

 

[DonJuan11]

Hi! Please read this INTRIGING story
I was at this party last weekend and was playing one of the girls. She's like a "fine" girl, (does anything not to look as a slut) so we talked, she teased me and her pupils were dilated. We almost kissed but we were disturbed by the others... So I thought, I'll take it smooth and isolate and kiss her.

Apparently she got more and more drunk. She made out with another guy way under her leauge (she's 7/10 I'm 7/10 this guy was 5/10).

LOL. Dude it's not for you to tell us you are 7/10, it's for others to you that.

I know this girl wants me so I'm gonna hang out with her.. But I don't have her # only Facebook and MSN.

So I was thinkin about sending her a message on FB pretty straight-forward:
"I want you.
Meet me at [landmark between our houses], friday 20.00"

Is this a good Idea?
I was also thinking about chatting and sending:
"Wow you got real drunk last weekend, you confused me with the [other guy 5/10]"

What do ya think DJs?

Oh man, you forgot to say "I only pay prostitutes in 20s, hope that's acceptable too." Could you make her feel anymore like a hooker?

 

[underoath777]

from the get go I always and always talk to women and refer to them as hun, sweetie...then later after I escalate subtly and make it obvious I'm a sexual man I start saying things like babe, baby and this just makes girls go goooogy gaga over you (well in my experience)

I also do it and they love it. However, I decided I was going to stop as it showed too much interest and gave them the feel of a boyfriend talking.

Then after reading your post I realized that's not the case, and I remembered how actions speak louder than words, so I will keep my words the same, but correct my actions and needy, beta-like behavior.

Thanks man!

 

[sbgm]

hahaha
I haven't cared to learn the pm/am system I always confuse the two...

But, ontopic: Should I ask her out or just wait to see if she shows up at the club this weekend? Isn't it weird to aks a girl out if she made out with another guy? although we almost made out hehe

 

[sbgm]

Done!
I got her number way
probably callin her tomorrow asking her out on an action date, sledge-riding and then hot chocolate at my house