"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChalengeGuyFan

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What do our fellow sosuavers want to achieve in the next 3 years?

Did you begin yet?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bish0p

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I'm not gonna state all of my goals, but I would like to have some more credentials in the field that I work in, a better paying job, have most of my debt paid off, more money saved up (I'm not posting the amount), and a better, stronger body....not in any particular order though.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Yay! The first reply.
Are the others wandering and expecting things to happen to them?
Come on people!

My main goals are raising enough money to study abroad and improving my game to a satisfactory level.
 

HolyG

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Become my own boss and generate my own income through internet marketing. First, get to where I'm making a modest income. then get flat out rich. It's simple if the economy won't give me a job...I'll make my own way.
 
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