"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChalengeGuyFan

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What do our fellow sosuavers want to achieve in the next 3 years?

Did you begin yet?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bish0p

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I'm not gonna state all of my goals, but I would like to have some more credentials in the field that I work in, a better paying job, have most of my debt paid off, more money saved up (I'm not posting the amount), and a better, stronger body....not in any particular order though.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Yay! The first reply.
Are the others wandering and expecting things to happen to them?
Come on people!

My main goals are raising enough money to study abroad and improving my game to a satisfactory level.
 

HolyG

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Become my own boss and generate my own income through internet marketing. First, get to where I'm making a modest income. then get flat out rich. It's simple if the economy won't give me a job...I'll make my own way.
 
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