"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChalengeGuyFan

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What do our fellow sosuavers want to achieve in the next 3 years?

Did you begin yet?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bish0p

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I'm not gonna state all of my goals, but I would like to have some more credentials in the field that I work in, a better paying job, have most of my debt paid off, more money saved up (I'm not posting the amount), and a better, stronger body....not in any particular order though.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Yay! The first reply.
Are the others wandering and expecting things to happen to them?
Come on people!

My main goals are raising enough money to study abroad and improving my game to a satisfactory level.
 

HolyG

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Become my own boss and generate my own income through internet marketing. First, get to where I'm making a modest income. then get flat out rich. It's simple if the economy won't give me a job...I'll make my own way.
 
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