So I started seeing this girl. Everything is fine, she feels comfortbale with me and my friends, when I start making out with her she keeps excited for hours, starts breathing heavily, everything. The only problem is, the cliched "I want to take it slow" when I try to have sex with her.
We've been seeing eachother for a few days now, but today was the first time I tried to take her shirt off of her, and she looked me in the eyes and shook her head in disagreement. So I'm thinking maybe she's not aroused enough yet, I continue making out with her, kiss her neck, stroke her hair, everything. Soon she starts breathing like she ran a mile, hugs me tighter, and starts kissing my neck in response. After half an hour more I ask her if she's sure she doesn't want to take it a step further, and she replies with "I'm sorry, but I just don't want to take it too fast". So after half an hour more of this make-out stuff I got bored, found an excuse to finish it and went to watch TV, she sat with me for a while then said that since it's already 3 in the morning she needs to go back to her place.
So my question is, when they say they don't want to rush it, how long do they have in mind? A week? 2 weeks? Cuz I'm definatelly not waiting for a year to get her into bed. And also, is this one of those things where the girl sees you as a potential provider and witholds sex on purpose, or is it actually that she's the type who wants to take it slow? And, while we're on the topic, you guys have any tips to speed it up?
We've been seeing eachother for a few days now, but today was the first time I tried to take her shirt off of her, and she looked me in the eyes and shook her head in disagreement. So I'm thinking maybe she's not aroused enough yet, I continue making out with her, kiss her neck, stroke her hair, everything. Soon she starts breathing like she ran a mile, hugs me tighter, and starts kissing my neck in response. After half an hour more I ask her if she's sure she doesn't want to take it a step further, and she replies with "I'm sorry, but I just don't want to take it too fast". So after half an hour more of this make-out stuff I got bored, found an excuse to finish it and went to watch TV, she sat with me for a while then said that since it's already 3 in the morning she needs to go back to her place.
So my question is, when they say they don't want to rush it, how long do they have in mind? A week? 2 weeks? Cuz I'm definatelly not waiting for a year to get her into bed. And also, is this one of those things where the girl sees you as a potential provider and witholds sex on purpose, or is it actually that she's the type who wants to take it slow? And, while we're on the topic, you guys have any tips to speed it up?
