I've been dependant on school for approaching women and whenever schools out, I have no place to approach women. Of course, I want to change that and I'm tired of using "Schools out" as an excuse to not approach women. I know there's the mall, but dude, I don't have a car and I have no idea where the heck a bus is. So where else could I go when schools out to approach women? I don't want to be stuck in my house all summer.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I want to stop depending on school to approach women.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ConantheLibertarian
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Women are everywhere. If you don't want to be stuck in your house, don't sit around at home all day. Get out there and do a fun activity/hobby, I'm fairly certain you'll see a woman at some point. But go out for you, not to find women.
Tha Realnezz
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No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
Tha Realnezz
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You don't wanna eat a summer?Keep numbers and call up chics..trust me.
Hit up gyms, any local bars/clubs that you can get in? Local community college? Hangout there, people take summer school.... umm.. Ill try to think of more. Some guys like to sarge at salsa dancing classes and stuff like that too..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Trust me man, I do try and approach every girl during school, but now that schools over I realize that it really is a bad place to approach. The only time school is good for approaching is school activities that are NOT during school, like sports or band. But I can't be waiting until band camp starts to approach women again. Most likely I'll go to the mall or something but since I don't have a car and my mother doesn't like driving, that's a b*tch. Other than that, I'm thinking about taking up karate, so I might see some chicks there.Tha Realnezz said:No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
The Realnezz has always been right when I've read his stuff. All the stuff he said that DOESN'T work, though, always does for me. Then again women find me attractive, so even when my shyt is weak I still walk away with at least a number and I can fix mistakes later when they forget awkwardness and bad game, just remembering a face and a motive.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.