I've been dependant on school for approaching women and whenever schools out, I have no place to approach women. Of course, I want to change that and I'm tired of using "Schools out" as an excuse to not approach women. I know there's the mall, but dude, I don't have a car and I have no idea where the heck a bus is. So where else could I go when schools out to approach women? I don't want to be stuck in my house all summer.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I want to stop depending on school to approach women.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ConantheLibertarian
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Women are everywhere. If you don't want to be stuck in your house, don't sit around at home all day. Get out there and do a fun activity/hobby, I'm fairly certain you'll see a woman at some point. But go out for you, not to find women.
Tha Realnezz
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No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
Tha Realnezz
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You don't wanna eat a summer?Keep numbers and call up chics..trust me.
Hit up gyms, any local bars/clubs that you can get in? Local community college? Hangout there, people take summer school.... umm.. Ill try to think of more. Some guys like to sarge at salsa dancing classes and stuff like that too..
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Trust me man, I do try and approach every girl during school, but now that schools over I realize that it really is a bad place to approach. The only time school is good for approaching is school activities that are NOT during school, like sports or band. But I can't be waiting until band camp starts to approach women again. Most likely I'll go to the mall or something but since I don't have a car and my mother doesn't like driving, that's a b*tch. Other than that, I'm thinking about taking up karate, so I might see some chicks there.Tha Realnezz said:No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
The Realnezz has always been right when I've read his stuff. All the stuff he said that DOESN'T work, though, always does for me. Then again women find me attractive, so even when my shyt is weak I still walk away with at least a number and I can fix mistakes later when they forget awkwardness and bad game, just remembering a face and a motive.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.