I've been dependant on school for approaching women and whenever schools out, I have no place to approach women. Of course, I want to change that and I'm tired of using "Schools out" as an excuse to not approach women. I know there's the mall, but dude, I don't have a car and I have no idea where the heck a bus is. So where else could I go when schools out to approach women? I don't want to be stuck in my house all summer.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I want to stop depending on school to approach women.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ConantheLibertarian
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Women are everywhere. If you don't want to be stuck in your house, don't sit around at home all day. Get out there and do a fun activity/hobby, I'm fairly certain you'll see a woman at some point. But go out for you, not to find women.
Tha Realnezz
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No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
Tha Realnezz
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You don't wanna eat a summer?Keep numbers and call up chics..trust me.
Hit up gyms, any local bars/clubs that you can get in? Local community college? Hangout there, people take summer school.... umm.. Ill try to think of more. Some guys like to sarge at salsa dancing classes and stuff like that too..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Trust me man, I do try and approach every girl during school, but now that schools over I realize that it really is a bad place to approach. The only time school is good for approaching is school activities that are NOT during school, like sports or band. But I can't be waiting until band camp starts to approach women again. Most likely I'll go to the mall or something but since I don't have a car and my mother doesn't like driving, that's a b*tch. Other than that, I'm thinking about taking up karate, so I might see some chicks there.Tha Realnezz said:No,**** that.
I regret missing out on alot of HS and College pu22y.Beleive me every guy in the world thinks "oh once I get out into the real world,i'll have girls lining the block to **** me"..
Yeah ****ing right.
Where are you gonna meet all these women?In the supermarket?At the mall?
That's on TV,most women meet their men at work,school,family events or through hookups..
Half these guys' problems is they cold approach when most women do NOT want to be picked up in public by guys they don't consider highly attractive.
If you are in school,SLAY EVERY LAST GIRL IN THERE and keep the relationship civil so you can call her up and smash out her freinds & family when you get together..
Please take my advise...school is the absolute best place to meet women and you won't ever meet that amount of single women in any other place on a daily basis.
The only other real option is the clubs & bars.Unless you're pretty good looking...you can't just cold approach women that's the whole problem with this ****ing board.
The Realnezz has always been right when I've read his stuff. All the stuff he said that DOESN'T work, though, always does for me. Then again women find me attractive, so even when my shyt is weak I still walk away with at least a number and I can fix mistakes later when they forget awkwardness and bad game, just remembering a face and a motive.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.
C'mon tho man, don't tell him that. He might be from a small town. I did that crap my junior and senior year and girls knew my name for almost two years after I left town to go to college. I can go back and use my connections from good fukcs now, but once you get HIGH in the numbers you're fukced. I stayed on good terms with all those girls too. I say just go for the hottest women in high school, NOT THE NUMBERS. Persue the fukc out of them. That will give you more inner satisfaction than anything else.