"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I want to start a Master Mind group

themusicman

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Basically after reading Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" (dudes, if you haven't read it, pick it up NOW. 99 cents on the kindle store) I'm inspired to start having some legit talks with guys in a similar boat to me. Basically I'm 23 and currently considering whether I want to keep my 9-to-5 or step out and make it on my own. I'm single and exploring the world of women. Constantly working to improve my body, which every guy should do. Basically I'm just trying to learn and grow every day into a better and more bad-ass man. I would really like to start conspiring with several other guys with the same attitude (it's crazy how few of us there are out there). I want to set up a google hangout once or twice a week where we can get together for 30-60 minutes and chat about whatever- business, women, fitness, the meaning of life, anything. Let me know if you want in on this. Once we get a few guys interested, we'll discuss what times work best for everyone and schedule the first hangout. Peace dudes!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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