"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want to start a Master Mind group

themusicman

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Basically after reading Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" (dudes, if you haven't read it, pick it up NOW. 99 cents on the kindle store) I'm inspired to start having some legit talks with guys in a similar boat to me. Basically I'm 23 and currently considering whether I want to keep my 9-to-5 or step out and make it on my own. I'm single and exploring the world of women. Constantly working to improve my body, which every guy should do. Basically I'm just trying to learn and grow every day into a better and more bad-ass man. I would really like to start conspiring with several other guys with the same attitude (it's crazy how few of us there are out there). I want to set up a google hangout once or twice a week where we can get together for 30-60 minutes and chat about whatever- business, women, fitness, the meaning of life, anything. Let me know if you want in on this. Once we get a few guys interested, we'll discuss what times work best for everyone and schedule the first hangout. Peace dudes!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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