"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

I want to spend little/no money on dating, am I going to have limited options?

Thread starter Shootin4Dreams
Start date Sep 3, 2015

Shootin4Dreams

Banned

Sep 3, 2015

The side girl screwed me over even though she was trying to act like chivalry existed. This last girl I was with I didn't have to spend A DIME on her and she would make me dinner when I come over and let me borrow things and paid for half a ticket for a show. How can I frame this right where the woman will want to go out for drinks with me and see me and not expect money or get pissed?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.