"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

I want to spend little/no money on dating, am I going to have limited options?

Thread starter Shootin4Dreams
Start date Sep 3, 2015

Shootin4Dreams

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Sep 3, 2015

The side girl screwed me over even though she was trying to act like chivalry existed. This last girl I was with I didn't have to spend A DIME on her and she would make me dinner when I come over and let me borrow things and paid for half a ticket for a show. How can I frame this right where the woman will want to go out for drinks with me and see me and not expect money or get pissed?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.