"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want to sleep with lots of different women, how do I make it happen?

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Go ahead, give me advice.

I am going to ask the easiest question instead of beating around the bush and the one question that it seems like most people cannot seem to answer.

I want the best minds on this sub to answer it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't know if I'm one of the "best" minds but I'll give it a shot.

Option one : Drastically lower your standards and play a high numbers game using Tinder, day game, bar game.

Option two : Cultivate yourself into a highly desirable mate. That means above average physique, style and personality.

Option three : Hookers.

Option one requires strong fundamentals of the basics of game. Confidence, escalation and being at least "average" in style and physique (can't be overweight or in tracksuit pants). Despite what people claim, I think 99.9% of guys can reach "average" and find plenty of decent "average" women. Option two requires more time to "prepare" given that getting a nice physique requires dedication. Option three will get expensive but skips everything else.
 

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You can run options 1 and 2 simultaneously, the more you raise your value the higher your standards become but don't cut your nose off to spite your face like bigdave, beggars can't be choosers. Smashing many average women will boost your confidence and fine-tune your game too so when you're ready for the big boy leagues you don't fall flat on your face. You gotta walk before you can run.
 
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Go on lots of dates.
 

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Take more chances. That's all there is to it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Become a real life Don Juan
 

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Easy:

1. Stop fapping to porn
2 . Get on your purpose, make your sustainability and growth your priority
3. Start fvcking interested women . If no one's giving you pvssy, no one will want to. Even if one gives you pvssy others will want to
4. Get the next babe. Your going to do rotations or plates.
 

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For starters though?

Just do basic guy stuff first. Social circle game.

Yeah, guy stuff and get puzzy wherever and however you can .

Don't be like bigdave17 and have these huge standards and your dyck is dry as a desert!
 

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For sure.

Just thinking what I would prescribe for myself. Imagine you wash up here with fresh faced and wanting to handle your business. No prior experience yet to reflect on. You would have a case of the learner's paradox.

Probably would recommend to myself the book of pook (because it's just good fundamentals which you can build on with pretty much anything else, moving forward and fitting your own individual style), and to just do social circle stuff. Keep it simple.

Not spinning plates, nor daygame, nor tinder, nor whatever.

Not until you become dissatisfied anyways.

But going from zilch to plate spinning.... eh. Just doesn't make sense to me. My brain wouldn't have managed it anyways.
Fvck ugly, **** fat, fvck whatever you can get started with, it puts you in the game .
 

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Don't know if I'm one of the "best" minds but I'll give it a shot.

Option one : Drastically lower your standards and play a high numbers game using Tinder, day game, bar game.

Option two : Cultivate yourself into a highly desirable mate. That means above average physique, style and personality.

Option three : Hookers.

Option one requires strong fundamentals of the basics of game. Confidence, escalation and being at least "average" in style and physique (can't be overweight or in tracksuit pants). Despite what people claim, I think 99.9% of guys can reach "average" and find plenty of decent "average" women. Option two requires more time to "prepare" given that getting a nice physique requires dedication. Option three will get expensive but skips everything else.
Agree with @Murkserious

Run both options 1 & 2 (and I guess 3 if you want).

Just get that SMV as high as you can, while spinning the plates that “will have you” at the moment, so to speak.

Read redpill sidebar and get your knowledge up. The rest will come once you start doing these things and you’ll only get better over time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think #3 should only be supplemental. You should be able to fvck those types without $ .

The whole point of this game is to increase your valuation. So you have to GET valyat from somewhere. That means she gives you pvssy because she wants to fvck you . Not for $.
 

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I’d recommend focusing on option 2 myself. No harm in pushing yourself to continually become a better version of yourself - and it affects much more than just sexual interactions.
 

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Go ahead, give me advice.

I am going to ask the easiest question instead of beating around the bush and the one question that it seems like most people cannot seem to answer.

I want the best minds on this sub to answer it.
Log off and go get baeee. More importantly, climb the dominance hierarchy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you could become an actor or professional athlete
 
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