"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to make an advance at this work chic...

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I don't recall anyone suggesting you give her flowers or cards... in fact if you would've asked if you should then most likely people here would've said no.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by padrote
I don't recall anyone suggesting you give her flowers or cards... in fact if you would've asked if you should then most likely people here would've said no.
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Yeah. I tried to do something different. Some advised not to pursue. Some said to go for it. I opted to try, and that's how I chose to do it. Seeing as she has responded I was thinking that since I committed to trying, that I may as well go for the gusto, and this is where I was hoping to get some advice...as far as if I should call her, go see her, or email her. Sending the stuff and leaving the situation as is would be all for naught if i quit now, yes?
 
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