Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I want to make an advance at this work chic...

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I don't recall anyone suggesting you give her flowers or cards... in fact if you would've asked if you should then most likely people here would've said no.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by padrote
I don't recall anyone suggesting you give her flowers or cards... in fact if you would've asked if you should then most likely people here would've said no.
Yeah. I tried to do something different. Some advised not to pursue. Some said to go for it. I opted to try, and that's how I chose to do it. Seeing as she has responded I was thinking that since I committed to trying, that I may as well go for the gusto, and this is where I was hoping to get some advice...as far as if I should call her, go see her, or email her. Sending the stuff and leaving the situation as is would be all for naught if i quit now, yes?
 
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