“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I want to lose wight

Warboss Alex

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Right, so if you ate at 8:59pm it'd be okay? There's no magic time after which you shouldn't eat. Most people tend to cut carbs a few hours before bed if they want to lose weight but I doubt that's necessary for you just yet.

And yes, smaller, more frequent portions are better. Six small meals a day instead of three big ones are superior, since they keep your metabolism stoked and burning calories all day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Part of the reason that small meals are better is than humans spent about ten times longer as hunter/gatherers than they have as farmers.
 

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dude... that one guy said he was 6' and 165 lbs??? What the hell??? That's like smaller than my right leg. He needs to eat... I swear. He thought he was overweight at 200?? Ridiculous!
 

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You are the ridiculous one. Everyone has a different frame.

If 165 is your right leg, then you are either one fat slob or one puffed-up roidhead freak.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Part of the reason that small meals are better is than humans spent about ten times longer as hunter/gatherers than they have as farmers.
How does this make it better?

Be nice to semag now, the boy needs his protein and may very well eat you if you persist.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am starting to see what you mean about keeping the metab going, because since I have started eating smaller portions, my digestion has gone a lot better. I used to eat until i was so full I couldnt move, cause that's how i was raised, and that is what was normal for me. Now i notice that if i eat one hamburger, or something, i can still move, but i am full for a bit. Then i snack on nuts, or an apple between then and the next meal and it makes me feel a lot better. I don't get sleepy after i eat, and i just feel overall better. Pretty cool stuff. And staying away from sugar has also made me feel a lot better. I am trying to wean off of caffine to cause that screws up my sleeping routine and i am tired all the time. Since doing that i have noticed i feel better when i get up in the morning and it's easier to sleep all night. This is just after a few days. So thanks, for the advice, and I will keep up with this and get in touch if i need more help and to let you guys know how things are working out for me.
 

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Okay, maybe you guys can help me here.

First off, at this time last year, I weighed 234 pounds, and at a height of 5'6, yes I know, that was dangerous as all hell. In the span of a year, with my new job, I've dropped down to 188 pounds. My job involves a lot of lifting heavy objects and a lot of walking around quickly, so I get a workout every day, although not a very intense one.

I've dropped from a size 44 belt to a size 40, which is already feeling too small, and my focus right now is to continue losing fat and start working on my abs. My legs and arms are doing pretty well for themselves. I eat a somewhat skimpy diet, but I don't skip meals, I have at least 3 a day. Usually there's a 6 to 7 hour period of time between my breakfast and my lunch due to my work, then 4 or 5 hours between then and my dinner. I'd estimate that my calorie intake every day is under 1000.

So there's my case, guys. I'm already looking and feeling a lot better, but I've gotten to the point where I probably need to make a concious effort at losing and gaining.

What do I do?
 

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At your current weight I'd say just eat more regularly, quality food, and your working enviroment should do the rest.

If you can manage it, a 30 minute walk before breakfast can help but will do nothing for you if you're on such a low-calorie diet.

Try to eat every 3 hours if at all possible, in that gap for work consider a liquid meal, like mixing a source of protein with a source of carbs and drinking that, hell if they don't let you have a lunch break just go to the toilet and drink it there.

If what you're currently doing is working then stick with it! No need to make any more conscious an effort if you're making progress. If you stop losing for an extended period, only then do you rethink your cardio/diet/workout.
 

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I've been holding at 188 for the last week, which is different than how it's been, but if it goes on any longer then yeah, I'll rethink it and try other things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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