"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I want to last longer, but I don't want to beat it before, suggestions?

JimmyBizzle

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So I've been trying to stop masturbating and looking at porn because I think I was getting desensitized and I was having problems getting it up. Well now I just can't seem to last long at all anymore.

I think I could definitely last longer with a condom, but my girlfriend doesn't like it when I wear one. Also, I'm 6'0" and 175 pounds and she is 5'1" and 105 pounds, so it's already a pretty tight fit ;) , which doesn't really help the issue.

Any suggestions to last longer without beatin' it between romps?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic

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How bout this.... When you get close to cvmming, slow down, or stop for a minute. Its not rocket surgery.
 

trent81

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Actually it's a good sign, you are getting back to normal. Stay away from porn and masturbating. Eventually, you will get back to normal times and off of formula one test laps. The point is, you're body is getting back to feeling a vagina rather than a hand, so of course, you are initially not going to last. DO NOT MASTURBATE before sex, it will kill all hard on ambitions.
 

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If you can do 60 or more, even better. Be sure to drink half a glass of water before push ups, and full glass of water after push ups. Drink as much as you feel you need to, but no more then full glass. Other wise, you might have the tendency to pee during sex.

Not only will you last longer, but you will have a harder hard-on at the same time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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horaholic

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Deniska said:
Do 40 or more push ups 5-10 min before sex.
Thats really feasible. I always stop the girl when shes sucking my cok to do some pushups. :rolleyes: Im sure the girl wont lose the mood either.

Nothing against pushups, but come on! "scuse me honey, Im gonna do some pushups and drink water, while you get undressed."
 

realsmoothie

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Um, won't a harder boner make it more difficult for him not to ***? He'll be bigger and it will feel tighter.
 
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