"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I want to last longer, but I don't want to beat it before, suggestions?

JimmyBizzle

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So I've been trying to stop masturbating and looking at porn because I think I was getting desensitized and I was having problems getting it up. Well now I just can't seem to last long at all anymore.

I think I could definitely last longer with a condom, but my girlfriend doesn't like it when I wear one. Also, I'm 6'0" and 175 pounds and she is 5'1" and 105 pounds, so it's already a pretty tight fit ;) , which doesn't really help the issue.

Any suggestions to last longer without beatin' it between romps?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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How bout this.... When you get close to cvmming, slow down, or stop for a minute. Its not rocket surgery.
 

trent81

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Actually it's a good sign, you are getting back to normal. Stay away from porn and masturbating. Eventually, you will get back to normal times and off of formula one test laps. The point is, you're body is getting back to feeling a vagina rather than a hand, so of course, you are initially not going to last. DO NOT MASTURBATE before sex, it will kill all hard on ambitions.
 

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If you can do 60 or more, even better. Be sure to drink half a glass of water before push ups, and full glass of water after push ups. Drink as much as you feel you need to, but no more then full glass. Other wise, you might have the tendency to pee during sex.

Not only will you last longer, but you will have a harder hard-on at the same time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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Deniska said:
Do 40 or more push ups 5-10 min before sex.
Thats really feasible. I always stop the girl when shes sucking my cok to do some pushups. :rolleyes: Im sure the girl wont lose the mood either.

Nothing against pushups, but come on! "scuse me honey, Im gonna do some pushups and drink water, while you get undressed."
 

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Um, won't a harder boner make it more difficult for him not to ***? He'll be bigger and it will feel tighter.
 
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