Hello, I've conquered most of my AA dealing with cold approaching women, but there is still more work to do. For some reason, Night Game(clubs and bars) isn't coming so easy for me as Day Game initially did(I'll admit, it took a good 3 months to get somewhere with that). I still cold approach in those environments, though I'm a lot more nervous and scared in those places than in Day Game situations. I'm trying to first get over my fear of going to those places(Going to a party and a bar in the past 2 weeks is an ok start.)
I have no friends or people to go to those places with, so I'm always going to bars and clubs by myself. And I know that I need to cold approach a mixed group first thing in order to get somewhere, though doing that is harder than all-female sets. I don't do bad on my cold approaches in the clubs or bars, but it's hard for me to get past a minute or two of conversation with those girls. They seem to take off or find someone else to talk to at some point. It's actually tough finding all-female sets around here, usually there's a guy or two chatting them up(that probably came with them). Also, how direct and sexual should I be? My game is typically indirect with teasing throughout, though sometimes it works for some girls, other times, I'm sure they think I'm a little weird doing it. Most of the girls there seem to be in the7,8,9 range in looks. I'm sure perceived social value plays a big part too.
What should I do to improve my Night Game to the point where I can start getting results?(Make-outs and f-closes!). What should I do about mixed-sets as well, like one guy and two girls or two guys and two girls for example?
I'm waiting on The Mystery Method to come in the mail for me, so that should give some solid information about all of this. Help is appreciated.
I have no friends or people to go to those places with, so I'm always going to bars and clubs by myself. And I know that I need to cold approach a mixed group first thing in order to get somewhere, though doing that is harder than all-female sets. I don't do bad on my cold approaches in the clubs or bars, but it's hard for me to get past a minute or two of conversation with those girls. They seem to take off or find someone else to talk to at some point. It's actually tough finding all-female sets around here, usually there's a guy or two chatting them up(that probably came with them). Also, how direct and sexual should I be? My game is typically indirect with teasing throughout, though sometimes it works for some girls, other times, I'm sure they think I'm a little weird doing it. Most of the girls there seem to be in the7,8,9 range in looks. I'm sure perceived social value plays a big part too.
What should I do to improve my Night Game to the point where I can start getting results?(Make-outs and f-closes!). What should I do about mixed-sets as well, like one guy and two girls or two guys and two girls for example?
I'm waiting on The Mystery Method to come in the mail for me, so that should give some solid information about all of this. Help is appreciated.
