“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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stuka1939

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Just curious, since I am on the passive side and want to date attractive women. I am not just talking about knockouts here, but any girl that is attractive.

When you would go out, particulary to a bar/club.


Would men hit on your girl right in front of you?

Would friends or other envious men try and put you down in front of your date/girlfriend?

Would other men try and give you intimidating stares?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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  • No. It was well established that she's with me.
  • No. My friends respect one another, were're not kids.
  • How would I know? I don't check out other guys.
Do you even acknowledge there's a woman with you when you're out? It just seems that you are fixated on other things.
 

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Don't put the cart before the horse. Your being like Matt Damon in Good Will Hunting, not taking a step because your afraid of whats going to happen 10 steps down the road. Just get out there are start dating, then deal with situations as they arise.

From what I can gather from your post, your afraid that your dating out of your league. Remember you are the prize, treat yourself accordingly. Most importantly if you really want to be successful with women, read and study The Bible, its what taught me everything I know. I haven't learnt nothing from replies compared to what I learnt reading the bible multiple times.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Don't put the cart before the horse. Your being like Matt Damon in Good Will Hunting, not taking a step because your afraid of whats going to happen 10 steps down the road.
Good image. That applies to lots of fears people have, not just men's fear of dating.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Don't put the cart before the horse. Your being like Matt Damon in Good Will Hunting, not taking a step because your afraid of whats going to happen 10 steps down the road. Just get out there are start dating, then deal with situations as they arise.

From what I can gather from your post, your afraid that your dating out of your league. Remember you are the prize, treat yourself accordingly. Most importantly if you really want to be successful with women, read and study The Bible, its what taught me everything I know. I haven't learnt nothing from replies compared to what I learnt reading the bible multiple times.

Good post!

To the OP scroll down and read the DJ bible. You have been here since 2000 under the screen name Mahon. You are a senior member here but post like a 14 year old who has just joined 2 weeks ago.

I have a small penis should I still be sexually active?
I am scared to hit on a girl at a bar for fear of getting my ass kicked!
Am I good looking?
Most people are average looking
I still live at home is it possible for me to still get girls.


What you need to do is quit overanalyzing and start getting out of the field and start making some moves. READ THE BIBLE Its obvious by the way you post you never had.

A DJ does not over analyze every moves he makes. Grow some balls and get out there. Sorry for the tough love but someone who has been here under the screen name MAHON for 8 Years should know better. This website is about showing growth with woman and with life. You have shown no growth.:down:
 

tsmith2334

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Just curious, since I am on the passive side and want to date attractive women. I am not just talking about knockouts here, but any girl that is attractive.

When you would go out, particulary to a bar/club.


Would men hit on your girl right in front of you?
A little. Usually friendly flirting.

Would friends or other envious men try and put you down in front of your date/girlfriend?
I didn't experience that, thankfully. Matter of fact, it seemed like the opposite.

Would other men try and give you intimidating stares?
No, I don't think so. But I could be wrong. I never really cared or noticed.
 

The Deacon

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Would men hit on your girl right in front of you?

If they're her close friends, then yes, they'll playfully "flirt" with her. This is confusing, cause sometimes they actually don't like the girl but they'll do it anyway.

Would friends or other envious men try and put you down in front of your date/girlfriend?

Only if your friend is a complete douche. I've had it happen before. Rarely do other envous men step in, unless you got an HB10 or something. If you're at a club, expect at least one douche a night to try to steal your girl.

Would other men try and give you intimidating stares?

Not really intimidating stares as much as intimidation period. They'll get into your space, try to get between you and your girl, try to give you friendly conversation, you just have to gently put them back in their place.

There's risks involved, but it's worth it. You can date the women you want. Just understand that the hotter they are, the less likely they are to commit. Really hot women always look for what's bigger and better, and they're much more likely to cheat because they have more options. It's the price you pay to play the game. Get this "hopeless romantic" notion out of your head, and you'll do much better.
 

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agree w/ MacAvoy about where this question is coming from. get experience dude instead of trying to brainstorm contingencies

but generally speaking, guys will do those things if they perceive you as lower value than them or are sociopaths. for the guys perceiving you as lower value, learn how to AMOG and they'll leave you alone. for the guys who are sociopaths... no clue
 

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Well you cant and should not trust any human when it comes to money and sex as these are the two most powerful and tempting elements known to modern man.

I dated a 9 for 8 years. The most important thing is your self confidence and communication skills and you have to rock her world sexually..
 

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guys only stare, like the pvssy AFC's that most of them are

i never notice cuz im too busy focusing on my girlfriend

stop being SUCH a chump that you analyze this kinda shyt when you cant even GET a girlfriend in the first place period!!!
 

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don't be an insecure *****, i take guys checking my gf out as a compliment. Now if they start hitting on her while im there, and know im her bf, we're gonna have a problem ;)

for the most part, if you trust your gf, she'll take care of the guys on her own, and if you dont trust her, you shouldnt be with her in the first place..
 

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I have never dated a woman who is less than a HB7, at least in my own eyes, and yeah, there are always other guys hitting on your girl, especially when you are not around. When you go out, guys mostly just stare. Just laugh at them together with her. That's part of dating an attractive woman.
 

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Seems every average/slightly above average chicks I know want me. How do I get the actual babes? Hmm maybe I change my game around hotter girls.
 

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Would men hit on your girl right in front of you?

It's happened before and I looked them down on it, they would usually stop.

Would friends or other envious men try and put you down in front of your date/girlfriend?

Never happened to me.

Would other men try and give you intimidating stares?

No, but if they tried dancing with my girl or try flirting with her I would be the one giving them intimidating stares.

Staring someone down usually ends in arguments, not fist fighting. That's an unnecessary fear a lot of people have these days; people think the slightest sense of wrath will materialize into a fight.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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