You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A lot of men give women too much credit. They believe that most women have an agenda and completely intend to 5hit test and play games with the men in their lives.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don't make any sense TO US... Or just don't make any sense?
They don't make any sense to us, and they sometimes don't make sense to each other. They also don't make sense to themselves at times.
So why did she like the jerk?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Do you mean works to solve my problem communicating with women?
How was your Backpage experience? Good and bad, price range, gotchas and safety?
that's just what women say to justify it a lot of the time though. the truth of the matter is that plenty of guys are only pretending to be nice to get laid, but plenty of guys are actually nice guys, but plenty of women have ridiculous standards about it (like a woman insulted a guy first and then he fired back and then she said that he must not really be nice then. I saw that happen on facebook), I don't blame a guy for not being nice to girls who reject him or lead him on or something
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You have a penile implant?
That is correct.
pretty much. I just wish it were a little bigger. I also got a silicone injection to make it thicker last October.
