I want to go on a date this weekend, but don't know how to ask..

[BigOlePappy]

I'm talking to many girls who seems to have interest in me. I have decent social skills and have been working hard on my C+F techniques. So far so good, but now I need to actually impliment these things and go on dates. The problem is, how do I go about it? Should I just be like, "hey what are you doing this weekend? We should do something." that is more or less what I had planned, but it seems to simple..

 

[BigOlePappy]

also, another problem is many of these girls live an hour away from me and I don't know of anything to do where they live (it's a farming community)

 

[Centaurion]

Just a couple of points :

1) Don't schedual first dates on Fri/Sat nights. It could give the impression that you don't have a social life in the chicks mind. Sundays or a weekday work for me.

2) Don't be vague, be specific. Instead of "Wanna hang out?" be more like : "I'm heading out to XXX place on XXX time. Join me!"

 

[BigOlePappy]

Thank for the advice! One problem, these girls all live in this small community college/ farming town where there is nothing to do. I live an hour away in memphis, and don't know if they will drive an hour away to hang out with somebody they don't know tht well.

 

[Kings_royalty]

If you can get a girls interest level high enough, she'll be willing to drive at least half way to meet up with you. Is there anything between you and these girls, like a bar or restaurant?

I would not drive an hour to meet up with a girl I don't even know, that sounds a little desperate bro, unless you have very good rapport with them.

Try meeting girls in your area, it could save you allot of headaches.