"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I want to get my sister and my friend together.....

habdragon08

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Well, My sister hangs out with all these REALLY annoying kids, as in theatre / chorus geeks. My sister is a freshman. Most of the kids she hangs out with are sophmores, and about 50/50 guys and girls. I wouldn't be surprised if half the guys she hangs out with are gay. My sister doesnt have a boyfriend. I'd be REALLY annoyed if she was with one of those kids.

Well my friend Nick has been over a few times, and he told me my siters hot. Nick's a sophmore. They flirted a little.

Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but I dont know who else to ask.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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Stay out of it.
 

Kidd

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I made the mistake of hooking up with a very good friend's sister in the past. The 10 minutes of face sucking were not worth the lost friendship.

Don't do it.
 

Fenderules

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lol "10 minutes of dace sucking:




yeah i'd stay out of it, just tell if he wants to go for her you wont be in the way cause your not an uptight insecure older brother




i know so many cases where that has happened and some guy freaks out cause your hitting on his sister.
 

penkitten

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yah keep outta it..
when they fight , they will take it out on you
when they break up, your life will be torn to pieces because they will take turns ripping you apart.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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