"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I want to get my sister and my friend together.....

habdragon08

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Well, My sister hangs out with all these REALLY annoying kids, as in theatre / chorus geeks. My sister is a freshman. Most of the kids she hangs out with are sophmores, and about 50/50 guys and girls. I wouldn't be surprised if half the guys she hangs out with are gay. My sister doesnt have a boyfriend. I'd be REALLY annoyed if she was with one of those kids.

Well my friend Nick has been over a few times, and he told me my siters hot. Nick's a sophmore. They flirted a little.

Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but I dont know who else to ask.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Stay out of it.
 

Kidd

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I made the mistake of hooking up with a very good friend's sister in the past. The 10 minutes of face sucking were not worth the lost friendship.

Don't do it.
 

Fenderules

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lol "10 minutes of dace sucking:




yeah i'd stay out of it, just tell if he wants to go for her you wont be in the way cause your not an uptight insecure older brother




i know so many cases where that has happened and some guy freaks out cause your hitting on his sister.
 

penkitten

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yah keep outta it..
when they fight , they will take it out on you
when they break up, your life will be torn to pieces because they will take turns ripping you apart.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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