"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I want to forget the rules, I want to forget the tips! I need to be UNCONDITIONED FF

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babnik said:
Or some girl would compliment me and I would give ****y "I know" and she'd turn around and leave
David D made this popular. I've done it a few times and it backfired everytime and I vowed never to do it again.

Anyway, I use to do the same thing when I first stated reading the information here. I'll be in the field trying to use stuff from this website on the spot but it never worked for me, why? Because I was thinking about it and it came off as being planned or rehersed.

I must say the more I tried using the material here even though it didn't work, the more I stopped thinking about it. Once I stopped thinking about, I had already thought about it enough that everything I did became natural.

It's like getting into your car and driving. At first you want make sure you go through your mental check list of things in order to operate the car properly. Once you've been driving for awhile you don't think about putting your seat belt on, turning the ignition and putting your foot on the brakes in order to put the car in gear, you just do it. You don't think about checking you're rear view mirror or side mirrors prior to backing out or changing lanes because you've been doing it so long that you do it without thinking about it.

You have to get out there and learn how to put the infomation here to use cause nobody else here will do for you. When you first start using anything from this site when gaming a girl of course be behind the power curve that's why you have to do it often. It might or might not work, who cares? Once your "over thinking" declines you'll start seeing results.

Now to answer you question
babnik said:
how to UNCONDITION YOURSELF from all this and just go for what you want? How do I forget? How do I not think? How do I go and hug a girl instead of thinking "Is it kino time? Are we isolated?"
Learn to the point where you don't have to think about it.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Babnik said:
I am saying that being ****y turns girls off and you say it works.
...No, I didn't. This is what I said about C+F:
Sean O said:
The WORST thing you can do with C+F is take it too far!
I also said this:
Sean O said:
In fact, you can flat-out make a point of NOT doing all these little tricks and tactics like neg-hitting, being C+F, and playing hard to get, and if you're a sexual being with a tight inner game, you'll still pull chicks rather consistently.
:)
 
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