"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I want to forget the rules, I want to forget the tips! I need to be UNCONDITIONED FF

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babnik said:
Or some girl would compliment me and I would give ****y "I know" and she'd turn around and leave
David D made this popular. I've done it a few times and it backfired everytime and I vowed never to do it again.

Anyway, I use to do the same thing when I first stated reading the information here. I'll be in the field trying to use stuff from this website on the spot but it never worked for me, why? Because I was thinking about it and it came off as being planned or rehersed.

I must say the more I tried using the material here even though it didn't work, the more I stopped thinking about it. Once I stopped thinking about, I had already thought about it enough that everything I did became natural.

It's like getting into your car and driving. At first you want make sure you go through your mental check list of things in order to operate the car properly. Once you've been driving for awhile you don't think about putting your seat belt on, turning the ignition and putting your foot on the brakes in order to put the car in gear, you just do it. You don't think about checking you're rear view mirror or side mirrors prior to backing out or changing lanes because you've been doing it so long that you do it without thinking about it.

You have to get out there and learn how to put the infomation here to use cause nobody else here will do for you. When you first start using anything from this site when gaming a girl of course be behind the power curve that's why you have to do it often. It might or might not work, who cares? Once your "over thinking" declines you'll start seeing results.

Now to answer you question
babnik said:
how to UNCONDITION YOURSELF from all this and just go for what you want? How do I forget? How do I not think? How do I go and hug a girl instead of thinking "Is it kino time? Are we isolated?"
Learn to the point where you don't have to think about it.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Babnik said:
I am saying that being ****y turns girls off and you say it works.
...No, I didn't. This is what I said about C+F:
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The WORST thing you can do with C+F is take it too far!
I also said this:
Sean O said:
In fact, you can flat-out make a point of NOT doing all these little tricks and tactics like neg-hitting, being C+F, and playing hard to get, and if you're a sexual being with a tight inner game, you'll still pull chicks rather consistently.
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