"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Konjac

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Today when I got home I felt that something was missing in my game. I thought about it for a long time and then finally figured it out, KINO.
I don't know why, but I'm Kino-ing girls I don't have a sexual interest in but who are attractive, and not the ones I'd like to fukk. I was standing next to this girl today and I put my arm around her like it was no big deal and then walked down the hall with her body close to mine, and she started pushing up against me for no reason and smiling.

Unfortunately I can't bring myself to Kino other girls, I don't why and it's so damn annoying. Kino is going to be my main priority this week; I WILL make it a habit by the end of the week, because it's such a significant part of being a "DJ".

Does anyone else feel like they need to improve this particular area?
Feel free to share your thoughts and ideas about Kino.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gubby

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Pah, what's so hard? You read all the posts in the DJBible (way too many of them in my opinion)?

Try... doing it.
 
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Mr Spitfire

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I dont understand what your problem is.

Are you saying you are kinoing girls that are attractive but you dont want and incidentally your techniques ARE building desire in them?

But now what you are saying is you need to work on kinoing a bunch of OTHER girls?

If that is so I say get those girls that you claim not to want, to give you head. Work in somehting like if you do a good job I might have to use it. If nothing else these girls don't have any control over you and it will make you more confident all the way around by exploiting that advantage.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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