"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Konjac

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Today when I got home I felt that something was missing in my game. I thought about it for a long time and then finally figured it out, KINO.
I don't know why, but I'm Kino-ing girls I don't have a sexual interest in but who are attractive, and not the ones I'd like to fukk. I was standing next to this girl today and I put my arm around her like it was no big deal and then walked down the hall with her body close to mine, and she started pushing up against me for no reason and smiling.

Unfortunately I can't bring myself to Kino other girls, I don't why and it's so damn annoying. Kino is going to be my main priority this week; I WILL make it a habit by the end of the week, because it's such a significant part of being a "DJ".

Does anyone else feel like they need to improve this particular area?
Feel free to share your thoughts and ideas about Kino.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gubby

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Pah, what's so hard? You read all the posts in the DJBible (way too many of them in my opinion)?

Try... doing it.
 
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Mr Spitfire

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I dont understand what your problem is.

Are you saying you are kinoing girls that are attractive but you dont want and incidentally your techniques ARE building desire in them?

But now what you are saying is you need to work on kinoing a bunch of OTHER girls?

If that is so I say get those girls that you claim not to want, to give you head. Work in somehting like if you do a good job I might have to use it. If nothing else these girls don't have any control over you and it will make you more confident all the way around by exploiting that advantage.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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