"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I want to do things for myself"

Desdinova

Desdinova

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When my ex of 3 years left me, she gave me the line "I want to do things for myself." When I found this place, I learned that this was just ******** for "I'm no longer attracted to you, so I'm gonna go fvck some other guys."

It's amazing how the line she gave me has come back around to haunt her.

A couple days ago, I heard from her sister's bf that she got pregnant, had a baby, and the father buggered off on her. He has nothing to do with his child, and isn't paying child support.

I guess she got what she wanted!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SparkleMotion

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Yep, definately good riddance.

It's kind of weird how these ex-gf threads keep popping up, at the same time I'm having problems with my ex. It's as if we are all going through similar events, sort of like how women who live together have the same "monthly cycle". :crazy:
 
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