"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I want to do things for myself"

Desdinova

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When my ex of 3 years left me, she gave me the line "I want to do things for myself." When I found this place, I learned that this was just ******** for "I'm no longer attracted to you, so I'm gonna go fvck some other guys."

It's amazing how the line she gave me has come back around to haunt her.

A couple days ago, I heard from her sister's bf that she got pregnant, had a baby, and the father buggered off on her. He has nothing to do with his child, and isn't paying child support.

I guess she got what she wanted!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SparkleMotion

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Yep, definately good riddance.

It's kind of weird how these ex-gf threads keep popping up, at the same time I'm having problems with my ex. It's as if we are all going through similar events, sort of like how women who live together have the same "monthly cycle". :crazy:
 
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