"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Two years have passed and I’m still in love with my ex-wife. We’re divorced and two of our three kids are with her. We decided to separate ways when we thought we’re still young and immature to be tied in marriage. We often see each other, no bitterness involve. Sometimes, I go to her place to visit our kids, and vice versa. But yeah, I’m still into her. I want her back. I was the one who took the action for divorce so it’s me who should win her back - again… My friends suggested moves they saw in marriage tours, like asking my ex-wife for a date, court her and if things go well after, propose to her again. Would that be a good idea? What should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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divorceman45 said:
Two years have passed and I’m still in love with my ex-wife. We’re divorced and two of our three kids are with her. We decided to separate ways when we thought we’re still young and immature to be tied in marriage. We often see each other, no bitterness involve. Sometimes, I go to her place to visit our kids, and vice versa. But yeah, I’m still into her. I want her back. I was the one who took the action for divorce so it’s me who should win her back - again… My friends suggested moves they saw in marriage tours, like asking my ex-wife for a date, court her and if things go well after, propose to her again. Would that be a good idea? What should I do?
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Why did you divorce her?

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divorceman45 said:
Two years have passed and I’m still in love with my ex-wife. We’re divorced and two of our three kids are with her. We decided to separate ways when we thought we’re still young and immature to be tied in marriage. We often see each other, no bitterness involve. Sometimes, I go to her place to visit our kids, and vice versa. But yeah, I’m still into her. I want her back. I was the one who took the action for divorce so it’s me who should win her back - again… My friends suggested moves they saw in marriage tours, like asking my ex-wife for a date, court her and if things go well after, propose to her again. Would that be a good idea? What should I do?
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If you divorced her, what makes you think the same issues, your or hers, wouldn't surface again?
 
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