"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Want To Be Noticed

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stuartSan

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Hey guys.

It's been a while since I came back to the dating scene. I had an LTR for 2 years and not too long after that, an LTR of 3 years.

So just after breaking up.. I feel kinda lost for a bit. Heck I even forgot how to show interest in a girl after not doing it for a while.

I met a nice girl last week, but when I met her again in the streets, she didn't remember me. I don't think I stand out enough.

I want to have more presence.. but how?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stuartSan said:
I want to have more presence.. but how?
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I think a gym membership is a great idea... However, don't go in there trying to conquer the world in one day... building a body takes time and dedication... When you hear guys on here talking about how lifting has not only made them look better it also makes you feel better as well, its very true.... Thus, spilling over to your reactions with ppl.

Also, have you read any posts about BL and having the presence of being alpha? If not you really should look into it.. If you don’t have it now, eventually you’ll fake it till you become it.

..little peacocking never hurt anyone..
 
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Jaysus....just read the DJ info on this website. That's not a simple question to answer. Laziness might be a good trait to overcome! (Just kidding.)
 
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Scroll down to the bottom of the page.

Click on "DJ Bible."

Read "wms."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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