"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Want To Be Noticed

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stuartSan

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Hey guys.

It's been a while since I came back to the dating scene. I had an LTR for 2 years and not too long after that, an LTR of 3 years.

So just after breaking up.. I feel kinda lost for a bit. Heck I even forgot how to show interest in a girl after not doing it for a while.

I met a nice girl last week, but when I met her again in the streets, she didn't remember me. I don't think I stand out enough.

I want to have more presence.. but how?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stuartSan said:
I want to have more presence.. but how?
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I think a gym membership is a great idea... However, don't go in there trying to conquer the world in one day... building a body takes time and dedication... When you hear guys on here talking about how lifting has not only made them look better it also makes you feel better as well, its very true.... Thus, spilling over to your reactions with ppl.

Also, have you read any posts about BL and having the presence of being alpha? If not you really should look into it.. If you don’t have it now, eventually you’ll fake it till you become it.

..little peacocking never hurt anyone..
 
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Jaysus....just read the DJ info on this website. That's not a simple question to answer. Laziness might be a good trait to overcome! (Just kidding.)
 
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Scroll down to the bottom of the page.

Click on "DJ Bible."

Read "wms."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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