This.switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This.switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
x2!switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
Do everyone a favor and put the whole site on ignore by leaving. No one will miss you old boy.Philippe Schlichting said:I write threads like this to know who to put on my ignorelist.
There you go. Now you have a plan on what to do. Do it and you will realize that the "until you get a girlfriend" part doesn't come.SamTheHobit said:As a solution to your problem.
Go out and approach 100 girls and get as much numbers as you can and go out with them, until you get a girlfriend. Rince and repeat.
Be prepared to get rejected alot. Preferably drink a little alcohol when you do this to get you warmed up.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your reply makes no sense.PapiChulo said:You don't have to have to go "skydiving everyday" and climb Everest every month at all. These are some of the things people do for themselves and at times- out of solitude. I ve gotten into paragliding last year and there are lonely men in this sport from all different walks of life and different levels of sanity. There is possibility to forge some really strong relationships though. What I mean is that you don't have to do anything awesome with your life to have friends/women, you just have to be sociable projecting empathy onto others. You also have to be agreeable. In my understanding when people talk about "having life", they inevitably imply social life. I am introverted myself and all I seek is a couple of like-minded individuals to do great things together.
Read this.JohnChops said:You just have to find the type of girl who is interested in the same things you are. For example you say you sit in front of the computer all day, so find a girl who is into programming/gamming/computer science/ etc.
However, all women want a protector, you simply aren't a man if you are not a protector. It was how women were when picking mates thousands of years ago and it is still how they are now, just a lot less subtle about it.