This.switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This.switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
x2!switch said:
also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you
Do everyone a favor and put the whole site on ignore by leaving. No one will miss you old boy.Philippe Schlichting said:I write threads like this to know who to put on my ignorelist.
There you go. Now you have a plan on what to do. Do it and you will realize that the "until you get a girlfriend" part doesn't come.SamTheHobit said:As a solution to your problem.
Go out and approach 100 girls and get as much numbers as you can and go out with them, until you get a girlfriend. Rince and repeat.
Be prepared to get rejected alot. Preferably drink a little alcohol when you do this to get you warmed up.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your reply makes no sense.PapiChulo said:You don't have to have to go "skydiving everyday" and climb Everest every month at all. These are some of the things people do for themselves and at times- out of solitude. I ve gotten into paragliding last year and there are lonely men in this sport from all different walks of life and different levels of sanity. There is possibility to forge some really strong relationships though. What I mean is that you don't have to do anything awesome with your life to have friends/women, you just have to be sociable projecting empathy onto others. You also have to be agreeable. In my understanding when people talk about "having life", they inevitably imply social life. I am introverted myself and all I seek is a couple of like-minded individuals to do great things together.
Read this.JohnChops said:You just have to find the type of girl who is interested in the same things you are. For example you say you sit in front of the computer all day, so find a girl who is into programming/gamming/computer science/ etc.
However, all women want a protector, you simply aren't a man if you are not a protector. It was how women were when picking mates thousands of years ago and it is still how they are now, just a lot less subtle about it.