"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Want To Be Cut - Help

the_govner

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So I work out everyday, 3 times tennis and 3 times of a 2 hour NASM (www.nasm.org) sports specific workout (core-flexibility-speed-strength) and I'm relatively fit looking. 5'10 160.

I used to be 5'10 130 and I did mass gain heavy lifting a couple years back and reached 160, but the heavyweights is making my tennis worse so I needed to stop.

What's a good diet to get cut up? The thing is, i don't want to lose pounds because I look like an idiot when my face is thin. What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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You will lose fat from your face if you lose weight, is this what you mean? You can't really avoid it.

Best diets to lose fat on are based around protein, fat, fruit and vegetables with generally low carbs unless you can tolerate them (and if you can tolerate carbs, you generally don't have to ask how to get cut :D).
 

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Get liposuction and then get botox for your face.

Honestly if you cut your gonna lose face fat. So maybe just start working out your midsection and leave everything else be.
 
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So you're trying to look thin, but muscular; focus on high repetition weight training. 3 sets of 12-15 reps.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dmatter

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the_govner said:
So I work out everyday, 3 times tennis and 3 times of a

The thing is, i don't want to lose pounds because I look like an idiot when my face is thin. What do you think?
:crackup: :crackup: i:crackup: idk why but i found that rather funny.

anways green tea could help you lose bodyfat.
 

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basically u need to eat as many calories as u burn. Do losts of cardio and lifting. But most important is the diet. Tuna, chicken, eggs, veggies, oats, etc

oh and unfortunately u cant target a specific part of your body to lose weight
 

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hi all,
Simplest follow streak diet plan, exercise regularly and if possible do YOGA regularly if you any idea about that.

One more thing you can go for smartlipo surgery its major surgery don't be fear about that. Most patients return to normal activity in 1-2 days.
 
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