"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want to be a better kisser...

Babnik

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I honestly think I suck at it because:
1. First kiss is important and I get a bit nervous (rejection and all).
2. I don't really enjoy it...

I was never told I am good or bad. I don't know. A few ex-s I asked said I am OK, much better than some guys...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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napoleon

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The best advice is to go slower than usual, and follow the way she kisses.



PS: Don't ja ck off so much, you'll enjoy kissing more.
 

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^ How does not jacking off help. I enjoy kissing regardless.

To the OP, you need to be in the mood. You have to WANT to kiss her, and the way you do that, is you withhold kissing for a bit, and for a few times, don't kiss her when you want to..and then...after a bit, kiss her. Trust me, you'll train your brain to like it.
 

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If you don't enjoy kissing, are you sure you're on the right site?

Regardless, the only way you can really get better at it is to do it alot. Its all about experience, since each girl kisses a little differently. You need to be able to adapt to a new girl's style quick, and then from there you can show her to kiss your way, if you so desire.

Lucky for me, all the girls I've madeout with have been good kissers, and it seems that once I got over that initial nervousness from my first few times, I'm naturally a good kisser as well. Maybe you are similar.
 

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Keep at It Man n Kiss as Many different Gurls as much as u Can

I"ve had Average kisses to Ok Kisses n Great Kisses. My First Couple of Kisses with 2 different gurls was Terrible... One of them even made an excuse that they have 2 go to the Toilet n didn't come back.. n the other i didn't even know how to explain..

I found the Best Kisses i have r the Gurls wif Lots of Experience cuz they can Adapt to the Guy they Kiss n change there Style while still Enjoying It.. n teach u a few things ;) hehehe

I Kissed a HB8.5 Blonde who was Almost 30 n i'm 22.. n she Freaked me Out..

She basically Nip Kissed where she Bit my Lip n teased.. me.. She wasn't messing around but it was too much for me.. Cuz it was the 1st time someon has done that to me.. It kinda Shocked me but it was Good Experience.. Obviously she knew wat she was doing otherwise she would of tore my Lipz off hahaha

-CSR
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Babnik

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Sesar said:
Keep at It Man n Kiss as Many different Gurls as much as u Can

I"ve had Average kisses to Ok Kisses n Great Kisses. My First Couple of Kisses with 2 different gurls was Terrible... One of them even made an excuse that they have 2 go to the Toilet n didn't come back.. n the other i didn't even know how to explain..

I found the Best Kisses i have r the Gurls wif Lots of Experience cuz they can Adapt to the Guy they Kiss n change there Style while still Enjoying It.. n teach u a few things ;) hehehe

I Kissed a HB8.5 Blonde who was Almost 30 n i'm 22.. n she Freaked me Out..

She basically Nip Kissed where she Bit my Lip n teased.. me.. She wasn't messing around but it was too much for me.. Cuz it was the 1st time someon has done that to me.. It kinda Shocked me but it was Good Experience.. Obviously she knew wat she was doing otherwise she would of tore my Lipz off hahaha

-CSR
So I may as well forget getting laid...I just need to keep finding girls to make out with, knowing up front I am going to lose them!?
WTF?
 

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Babnik said:
So I may as well forget getting laid...I just need to keep finding girls to make out with, knowing up front I am going to lose them!?
WTF?
Yea pretty much.

You just need to lower your way-too-high expectations. Don't go with a girl expecting to get laid. Right now, you need to focus on getting experience. Just go into to looking for fun.
 

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how to become a better kisser
1. get a girl that likes you
2. kiss her all the time until you are a better kisser
practice makes perfect
 

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penkitten said:
how to become a better kisser
1. get a girl that likes you
2. kiss her all the time until you are a better kisser
practice makes perfect
Bingo!:up:
 
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