"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Babnik

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I honestly think I suck at it because:
1. First kiss is important and I get a bit nervous (rejection and all).
2. I don't really enjoy it...

I was never told I am good or bad. I don't know. A few ex-s I asked said I am OK, much better than some guys...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The best advice is to go slower than usual, and follow the way she kisses.



PS: Don't ja ck off so much, you'll enjoy kissing more.
 

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^ How does not jacking off help. I enjoy kissing regardless.

To the OP, you need to be in the mood. You have to WANT to kiss her, and the way you do that, is you withhold kissing for a bit, and for a few times, don't kiss her when you want to..and then...after a bit, kiss her. Trust me, you'll train your brain to like it.
 

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If you don't enjoy kissing, are you sure you're on the right site?

Regardless, the only way you can really get better at it is to do it alot. Its all about experience, since each girl kisses a little differently. You need to be able to adapt to a new girl's style quick, and then from there you can show her to kiss your way, if you so desire.

Lucky for me, all the girls I've madeout with have been good kissers, and it seems that once I got over that initial nervousness from my first few times, I'm naturally a good kisser as well. Maybe you are similar.
 

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Keep at It Man n Kiss as Many different Gurls as much as u Can

I"ve had Average kisses to Ok Kisses n Great Kisses. My First Couple of Kisses with 2 different gurls was Terrible... One of them even made an excuse that they have 2 go to the Toilet n didn't come back.. n the other i didn't even know how to explain..

I found the Best Kisses i have r the Gurls wif Lots of Experience cuz they can Adapt to the Guy they Kiss n change there Style while still Enjoying It.. n teach u a few things ;) hehehe

I Kissed a HB8.5 Blonde who was Almost 30 n i'm 22.. n she Freaked me Out..

She basically Nip Kissed where she Bit my Lip n teased.. me.. She wasn't messing around but it was too much for me.. Cuz it was the 1st time someon has done that to me.. It kinda Shocked me but it was Good Experience.. Obviously she knew wat she was doing otherwise she would of tore my Lipz off hahaha

-CSR
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Babnik

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Sesar said:
Keep at It Man n Kiss as Many different Gurls as much as u Can

I"ve had Average kisses to Ok Kisses n Great Kisses. My First Couple of Kisses with 2 different gurls was Terrible... One of them even made an excuse that they have 2 go to the Toilet n didn't come back.. n the other i didn't even know how to explain..

I found the Best Kisses i have r the Gurls wif Lots of Experience cuz they can Adapt to the Guy they Kiss n change there Style while still Enjoying It.. n teach u a few things ;) hehehe

I Kissed a HB8.5 Blonde who was Almost 30 n i'm 22.. n she Freaked me Out..

She basically Nip Kissed where she Bit my Lip n teased.. me.. She wasn't messing around but it was too much for me.. Cuz it was the 1st time someon has done that to me.. It kinda Shocked me but it was Good Experience.. Obviously she knew wat she was doing otherwise she would of tore my Lipz off hahaha

-CSR
So I may as well forget getting laid...I just need to keep finding girls to make out with, knowing up front I am going to lose them!?
WTF?
 

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Babnik said:
So I may as well forget getting laid...I just need to keep finding girls to make out with, knowing up front I am going to lose them!?
WTF?
Yea pretty much.

You just need to lower your way-too-high expectations. Don't go with a girl expecting to get laid. Right now, you need to focus on getting experience. Just go into to looking for fun.
 

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how to become a better kisser
1. get a girl that likes you
2. kiss her all the time until you are a better kisser
practice makes perfect
 

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penkitten said:
how to become a better kisser
1. get a girl that likes you
2. kiss her all the time until you are a better kisser
practice makes perfect
Bingo!:up:
 
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