"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

I want the drunk confidence when I'm sober

Snowman23

Banned
Joined
Sep 26, 2007
Messages
242
Reaction score
7
I swear... if I could do this, I would be pimp diesel.

Any ideas?

lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

ElGuapo

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2009
Messages
50
Reaction score
0
I've been thinking about this too. I think the key is that you have to try and NOT think so much in your interactions with girls. Why are you so confident and easy going when you're drunk? Because you're not encumbered by a million thoughts. You feel like doing something and you just do it.

When interacting with women, try to not pay attention to your thoughts. Focus on your feelings. And if you feel like doing something, just do it.
 

MisterMcGee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2008
Messages
825
Reaction score
18
It's all endorphins and crap. Just talk to people, get "on fire", and take action without letting anything affect you. That should give you a good emotional high.
 

daygameguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2008
Messages
996
Reaction score
27
Location
NY
Practice.
 

Captain Harlock

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2009
Messages
358
Reaction score
3
Location
The Netherlands
coke, but there's a number of reasons why you shouldn't go there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,566
Reaction score
4,141
Location
Inside her mind
Do what I did, go out on the field for 40 days and 40 nights sober, as soon as you go to the bar do the tornado in front of the hottest HB you see, after that you won't a give a ****

peace
 

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,566
Reaction score
4,141
Location
Inside her mind
eeeeeh and ok

Mike32ct said:
What's the tornado?

The tornado is simple, you spin in a circle screaming loudly (orgins: rsd, natural), now you wondering wtf is the point of that, if you can do that in front of of a bunch of people you dont know (sober), you get a sort of aderline rush, something that even liquor doesn't bring (for some it helps them get into "state")

That's what it did for me, anyway :cool: when your game is at a level where u truly don't give a fucc what people think you transcent to another stage.

After you do the tornado why would you be afraid to approach?

seriosuly
 

Jitterbug

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2008
Messages
3,197
Reaction score
140
What I did: I got on a table, danced and sang like a crazy guy at karaoke nights before I even had a drop of alcohol in me.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Plates. When I have two or three girls, I could care less about what a new girl says when I approach her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top