"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I want the drunk confidence when I'm sober

Snowman23

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I swear... if I could do this, I would be pimp diesel.

Any ideas?

lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've been thinking about this too. I think the key is that you have to try and NOT think so much in your interactions with girls. Why are you so confident and easy going when you're drunk? Because you're not encumbered by a million thoughts. You feel like doing something and you just do it.

When interacting with women, try to not pay attention to your thoughts. Focus on your feelings. And if you feel like doing something, just do it.
 

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It's all endorphins and crap. Just talk to people, get "on fire", and take action without letting anything affect you. That should give you a good emotional high.
 

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Practice.
 

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coke, but there's a number of reasons why you shouldn't go there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do what I did, go out on the field for 40 days and 40 nights sober, as soon as you go to the bar do the tornado in front of the hottest HB you see, after that you won't a give a ****

peace
 

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eeeeeh and ok

Mike32ct said:
What's the tornado?

The tornado is simple, you spin in a circle screaming loudly (orgins: rsd, natural), now you wondering wtf is the point of that, if you can do that in front of of a bunch of people you dont know (sober), you get a sort of aderline rush, something that even liquor doesn't bring (for some it helps them get into "state")

That's what it did for me, anyway :cool: when your game is at a level where u truly don't give a fucc what people think you transcent to another stage.

After you do the tornado why would you be afraid to approach?

seriosuly
 

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What I did: I got on a table, danced and sang like a crazy guy at karaoke nights before I even had a drop of alcohol in me.
 

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Plates. When I have two or three girls, I could care less about what a new girl says when I approach her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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