Okay boys, so my last thread was about her saying some **** about me. I confronted her about it last night and it completely backfired in my face. We started talking about that and then she got into the whole speech where she can't believe I did a girl on vacation (even though we were on a break) and every time I think about it gets me madder and madder. So we ended up taking a break so she can straighten out her "emotions"...Now I don't liek this...I still like this girl so FUC**N MUCH so I can't let her get away from me. HOW CAN I GET HER TO COME BACK TO ME
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I want her back..
- Thread starter toddC
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
shydude
Master Don Juan
I am with "I am me" she should have never know about other women. And second of all, if u really like her or even love her, then u should not let her go. Dont go and appologize for banging another chik or for saying bad ****, Just take her somewhere nice, like a a nice dinner and sex. Or invite her to ur crib light the candles, put some Rod Stewart clasics, and make out. Remember make out after a nice dinner
nono, i didn't tell her...everyoen in my school knew and she jsut found out from everyone else. once i knew that she knew i told her so it looked like i was coming clean....and she brought this up...so what shoudl i do? give her space? try gettin back immediately? wait for her to be ready?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
its too late, and shes the most naiive girl in the school so she believes EVERYTHING that she's told. She told me she didn't care about it but 2 days ago she told me online that everytime she thinks about it she gets madder and madder and its driving her away from me and she needs some time to get her feelings straightened out....WTF can I do? I NEED her
girlsarecrazy
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Don't call her, Don't answer her calls, Cut off contact from her until she comes begging for you!
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lmao, dis was on friends last night
yea but ignoring her calls woudl give her the impression that i want NOTHING to do with her and she'll just move on....and let me add that i am going to prom with this girl still...but i need her by my side every day i just feel like a completley diffrent person w/o her
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
VegasGuy56
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NoNoNoNoNo. Having her think you've forgotten about her is a GOOD THING. Stop talking to her and wait for her to come back to YOU. If you try to chase her you'll push her farther away.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Seriously man, now is a good time to go over the "Kill that Desperation!" post in the Bible. You're getting too worried about this. You don't NEED her. Remember that.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
girlsarecrazy said:
Don't do this cuz you will hammer the nails in the cofin if you do this. the last thing you need is for her to think that you don't give a flying F*** and that is why you are not communicating and probably running around with another girl.
try being honest with her and telling her what you feel without coming across as wimpy/needy.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Well, what are your priorities? Where do you place girls, and where do you place yourself? Answer this and PM me, and I might just be able to help. I will be thinking of a fix for you, although I can only 100% promise good, solid advice.toddC said: